i fall in love with one girl. i wanted to tell her but i shy.. what can i do??
can anyone plz tell me?
2006-10-05 02:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by lonely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write her a letter explaining to her how you feel and give it to her.
Work on your shiness because after a while that excuse starts to get old.
2006-10-05 02:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, first.. do you know her as in are you friends? If so, I wouldn't tell her you love her just yet, rather as her to go out for coffee or something involving just the two of you... maybe hang out that way for a little while to help you get to know her better in a more intimate setting and also help you be more comfortable with her. Then you will be able to see if you get along together and if so, will be comfortable enough to tell her you like her as more than a friend. See how it goes... if she totally blows you off, then she's not worth you being so worked up over. If not, you will have eased your way into the situation and can truely know if you really love her (the person she is inside)... good luck sweetie... even outgoing people like myself can get shy when feelings are involved... take ur time.. if she's worth it, it will work out : )
HEY MOESHA.. it's "speak" not "talk" and he's writing, not speaking... so check urself b4 getting on others!
2006-10-05 03:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a card. try hallmark. Don't go overboard or she might freak out. Make it nice cute or flowery and simple. Ask her out in the card. Under no circumstances should you tell her you love her. She WILL freak . Approach her when you feel comfortable. Try not to look too desperate , just smile. Calmly say Hi (name), I just wanted to give you this. Then leave her.
In the card you can write. Hi (name), You've had my attention for some time now and I'd really like to know you better if you would let me. Maybe a movie next saturday? Give me your answer at (phone # or place to meet you). Then you plan a movie find one in the afternoon so you can have dinner afterwards and have something to talk about to break the ice and see what happens from there.
2006-10-05 03:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just start out by talking to her as a friend and when you get kind of use to her you tell her how you feel about her because you never know, she might be asking someone else the exact same question that you are asking.
2006-10-05 03:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you've been dating her. If it's been like 3 weeks, you might not want to tell her yet. It could scare her off.
2006-10-05 03:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by james44_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR LONLEY,
DRESS NICE ,BE YOUR SWEET SELF, AND TAKE YOUR TIME UNTIL YOUR READY TO ASK
OR TELL HER MAYBE SOME FLOWERS FOR HER WOULD HELP.A COMFUTUBLE SETTING WOULD
ALL SO HELP
GOOD LUCK,
rondeau_diane@yahoo.com
2006-10-05 03:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and get it out of the way the worst that could happen is finding out she dont feel the same way then you just move on...
2006-10-05 03:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send her nice flowers n write 'i love you' in the message attached
2006-10-05 03:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by M!Z3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it with flowers!!!!!!
but do not forget to write her a beautiful note.
2006-10-05 03:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her
2006-10-05 02:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by bob t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋