I was out with my friends last night and we were talking about this exact thing.It got pritty heatedwith some of us being for and the others against, How do you all feel? Also We were talking about the double standard. It seems to be ok for girls to go to the strippers but not guys whys is that?
2006-10-05 02:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by blue_eyed_brat78 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I found this a an interesring conversation and just realy would like to hear other opinions.
2006-10-06 02:31:39 · update #1
My husband and i have gone to the gentleman's clubs together. Not a big deal. I have gone to the male review with the girls, once again not a big deal. He has gone with the boys, no big deal.
It just depends on how much you want to make of it. Anyone is capable of cheating, if they want to cheat it won't matter were they are. If there is trust in the relationship then it should be up to the couple to decide what works fro them.
It does not have to be a big deal unless you make it one.
2006-10-05 05:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Hollli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reactions at strip clubs should tell you that, the women are yelling and screaming with their friends and laughing and having a good time
In the 'gentleman's' club, they are subdued and drinking and far more serious looking. Oh they may catcall, but its not the fun, dumb thing it is for the girls. There is a whole other sort of tension in the air for the guys.
As for looking at e-porn, if a man has a woman around and would rather stay up late with a monitor, well that would make him pretty pathetic. No woman wants to think of her man as pathetic. Even worse, is the defense so many men use to their women of "well if you looked like those girls I wouldn't have to look at them" if shes insecure, you've hurt her and if she not, well, lets just say shes wondering what kind of idiot shes involved with here. In neither case do you come out ahead.
2006-10-05 10:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok for both. I mean looking is just that, looking! You can look, but don't touch. My fiancee and I go to female strip clubs together and I think it adds more to the relationship. I wouldnt worry too much about them going to strip clubs or looking at e-porn
2006-10-05 10:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What I am sick of hearing is how men are "visual"...yeah, no ****, so are women........we all prefer an in-shape man over an out of shape man, don't we??? Thats visual to me......
Basically after you say, "I do", all that purposefully looking to lust after others should stop. "Forsaking all others" doesn't just mean you can keep your dick in your pants.......
And no, I am not married. This is just my humble opinion.
2006-10-05 10:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most male strippers are gay and most female strippers will do anything for a buck.
2006-10-05 09:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by jules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel if you are true to your marriage and partner why do you need these things
2006-10-05 10:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Tee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT IN MY HOUSE, MARRIAGE, OR LIFE.
2006-10-05 10:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
am kool with it if am going with her
2006-10-05 10:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋