Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

2006-10-05 05:06:09 · 9 answers · asked by tator_197730 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 05:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by magic 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 05:05:38 · 23 answers · asked by yes, it's me 2 in Family

me and my boyfriend just had a kid together but i have a daughter from another relationship. my ex and i get along pretty well (that wasn't always the case) and my b/f gets so jealous i try to explain to him that the reason we can get along is because we're over eachother. why can't he understand that? my ex is in texas and i'm in ny so he knows i'm not sleeping w/ him or anything what's the big deal. what's he so jealous about?

2006-10-05 05:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by mackley222 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 05:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by steer_showen_chik 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i dont know i like him but every one tells me that he is way too old but i love him he is different and plus he is still a vegin like me:) but i dont know what do u guys think????

2006-10-05 05:04:38 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 05:04:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. In the beginning, and pretty much all the way up until early July we had the most amazing relationship ever. He would buy me little gifts for no reason, flowers, always tell me he loves me, and everything was just perfect. Then he had to go away and live at a corrections facility for 3 months. Most of the time we were still doing pretty good but in the past month everything has changed. He never hugs me or tells me he cares about me anymore. When I'm at his house he acts like I'm annoying when I try to get close to him. He told me recently when I asked him about it, that, "I still love you but I don't exactly feel the same as I did 7 months ago."

What should I do?

Should we take a break and maybe it will all come back? Or am I just wasting my time?
I'm so confused and I feel very hurt.

2006-10-05 05:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Singles & Dating

I always set aside fifteen minutes for the response when I ask the wife a question because she finds it impossible to answer yes or no.
eg. "Shall we eat out?" "I've got something unfreezing so- etc" for 15 mins. I've thought of giving her a postcard with YES on one side and NO on the other.

2006-10-05 05:03:41 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who had a strong attraction for me before and well still probably does. but i dont know why he told me he careda bout me as a friend and did'nt want to hurt me and i asked if i got shot would you care. yeah basically he's done things to me i can't imagine why. humping my chair while i'm sitting in it. caressing my hair. grabbing me. hugging me. talked about my breast. etc. the thing is he had a girl but they broke up cause he was'nt really happy with her and he wants to see her again in a couple of months plus he misssed talking to me and he wanted to get in contact with me. i think he's planning something towards me

2006-10-05 05:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my Husband and i have been apart for a year and a half, i want to get a divorce. i do not have an address on him to send him papers, he does not want to be found. i was told i will have to put in the legal notices in my local paper an ad and run for 3 weeks, with all my info. if there another way.

2006-10-05 05:03:20 · 4 answers · asked by Jaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe it is the fondation of any relationship. How about you?

2006-10-05 05:03:17 · 34 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When we are in the bar he doesn't give me hugs anymore. doesn't want to kiss me anymore and just doesn't act the way he use to.. I'm not sayin that I want him up my a** but showin a little affection would be nice. He shoots pool on wed night on a league, and lastnight I wasn't able to go. well a friend of his was tellin me that lastnight he asked this one girl we know for a hug, and he sat around and talked to her.. It hurt my feelings because he doesn't do that with me anymore. I asked him if he liked her and he said no that if he did he wouldn't be with me. I know he's never cheated but why is he acting like this. could it be he's too comfortable in the relationship and knows i'm not goin anywhere so he think's that it's ok for him to hug other girls and all.. How can I get our relationship the way it used to be..

2006-10-05 05:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think cheating is cheating, married or not. One is just as bad as the other. Anyone agree or disagree?

2006-10-05 05:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by carriem 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need a spicy look for my anniversary vacation getaway. I have'nt asked him what he thinks of the idea yet. I just plan on showing up with the manly thong in hand. But if he goes into shock how do i bring him back to earth? After all i wear them all the time for his pleasure. Serious suggestions only need answer, thanks.

2006-10-05 05:02:54 · 11 answers · asked by GOT MILK? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that people say that they are in "love".
Because people can not really say that you love someone till you really know them. So why is it that the word "love" used so flippantly?

2006-10-05 05:02:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'll never find anybody if i stay this shy....whut do i do?

2006-10-05 05:01:52 · 6 answers · asked by joan_the_yaminion 2 in Singles & Dating

if i was sick in a hospital bed...would ya'll wear one of those cute lil bunny suits for me????

2006-10-05 05:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 05:01:22 · 2 answers · asked by feelicious101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 05:00:20 · 1 answers · asked by Special K 5 in Family

I have been seeing a really great guy he is practicly living with me, however it turns out he is married, i found out through work 2 weeks ago. I confronted him, he said he had to marry her couldnt get out of it. He says he has never felt or known anything like he has wit me before. he stays over all week, stays most weekends, if not he comes over on sun evening. Its a really great relationship, we hav been 2gether for nearly 1 year i thought we were heading for more serious things. I dont know what to do know, really need some good advice

2006-10-05 04:59:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he was engaged to a woman down in kentucky named cristy moore and he was sleeping and having sex with me while he was engaged to that woman. what should I do?

2006-10-05 04:59:40 · 28 answers · asked by bobsgirl198363 1 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN ARUGING ALOT LATELY ABOUT DUMB STUFF AND IT'S MAKING ME MAD. WE RECENTLY BROKE UP BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES TO ME ASKING HIM A QUESTION ABOUT WHERE OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING/HEADED, HE GET'S DENFESIVE OR SIMPLY WON'T ANSWER. SHOULD I BE MAD? IM TRYING TO KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, GO TO SCHOOL FULL TIME AND WORK AND IT SEEMS LIKE WHEN IT COMES TO THE RELATIONSHIP IT'S ALL ON MY SHOULDERS. ANY ADVICE WILL BE GREATFUL

2006-10-05 04:59:36 · 12 answers · asked by trecypooh03 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well let me start off well if ur dad has a new girl friend and ur use to getting wat u want and time u want.. THEN she comes in his life and takes that a way well he said ill always be his lil girl and stuff but i hate another girl hangin on my dad when i am his lil girl i dont know wat do i just wish she would get out of the picture.. wat do i do

2006-10-05 04:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family

When I Was 7 Years Old I Had An Imaginary Friend , But He Did't Like Me .

2006-10-05 04:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

help plz

2006-10-05 04:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife and I enjoy each other sexually, but she finds the vast majority of her pleasure from my hand masturbating her versus what we would like, my organ. She has to have my organ in her, but she really doesn't get going until I am finished and I start to work on her with my hand. We think it might be because she was single for so many years that that is kind of what she got used to. We hope somebody else can relate with this and provide us some suggestions as to how we can bring her that ecstasy with my organ at the same time I am enjoying her.

2006-10-05 04:58:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

2006-10-05 04:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Family

2006-10-05 04:57:47 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I have been together for two years. And recently it seems like he gets mad over the simpliest things and then he wont talk to me for a couple days and says it was my fault. He doesn't want to have sex any more saying he doesn't feel like it and when i get off work in the mornings i catch him looking at porn and he says he looks at it all night. I don't feel like he finds me attractive anymore. I love him so much but how much of this can one person take?

2006-10-05 04:57:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating