okay well let me start off well if ur dad has a new girl friend and ur use to getting wat u want and time u want.. THEN she comes in his life and takes that a way well he said ill always be his lil girl and stuff but i hate another girl hangin on my dad when i am his lil girl i dont know wat do i just wish she would get out of the picture.. wat do i do
2006-10-05 04:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Umm... you just need to get over yourself. I know he's your dad but he doesn't want to be alone his whole life and one day you will be married or away in college too. Stop being so jealous, he's always going to love you and loving his girlfriens is a completley different thing, so just leave him alone and let him be happy.
2006-10-05 05:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I started dating a man with a daughter she felt the same way. She was so used to just calling him up and him just dropping whatever he was doing and go do whatever she wanted to do.....that when I came into the picture she got mad and jealous because he wasn't as readliy available. Trust me, he still loves you you just have to learn to share and become a little more responsible. If you need your dad to so something give him a little heads up and then he can be there for you in a better way. Don't accuse her of anything- like a previous entry said- that will only hurt you, hurt the girlfriend and imagine if your dad ever found out that you lied.....his disapointment would be too much to bear. Be careful, grow up a little, and give some. Your dad needs to have a good woman in his life. If that woman is nice to you...lighten up.
2006-10-05 12:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by breezyb23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with, it sounds like your dad and mom are not living together again. That is the only imaginable excuse for your dad having a girlfriend openly. If that is the case, call the attention of your dad to his reduced attention to you, as he might have been carried away by his affection for his girlfriend. If he truly loves you, he will make am amend. However, you will have to be magnanimous by not expecting a 100% attention, since it has naturally been divided up.
2006-10-05 05:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, ok well I dont know how old you are? but I guess its difficult to share an emotional connection at any age, in fact it takes a bit of growing up. Its good that your dad has a new girl in his life, he needs the kind of love that you just cant give him, yours is a different love and wil always be special but different.
2006-10-05 05:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by susiec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jealous, and you need to understand that your dad can and should have a life that is separate from you. Unless you are prepared to allow no other man in your life because of how it will make your father feel, then you cannot expect the same of him (and really, it'd be wierd if the two of you had that arrangement).
2006-10-05 05:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to be shown a good dose of earning something...she sees you taking complete advantage of your dad...and she good for stepping in...you already admitted you are spoiled...so whats the problem..you just can't get what you want? you are jealous and that is normal..you will be his number one always...but why does that have to come at a price for his happiness? He's doing what he can to make you happy...why don't you return the favor...get something else to do...like maybe a job...so you can get your own stuff....leave him alone...when you are grown and out doing your own thing...he will be sitting at home alone because you ruined every chance at his being happy...you should be glad he has found someone to share his life with...Grow up...and show him you can do things on your own...he's your dad...not your city bank....
2006-10-05 06:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember that you are his lil' girl and she is his girlfriend. You can not be his girlfriend and can not fill that place in his life. You need to try and help bring her in and not try to push her out. Your daddy deserves to be happy and have another woman in his life. Be sure to talk to him, I am sure he loves you and wants you to feel secure as his lil' girl. Don't try and put your daddy in the position where he feels that he has to choose between the two of you, people will just get hurt that way. Talk to your daddy, tell him what you feel and ask him to help you.
2006-10-05 05:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. Your dad needs love in his life....a different love than what you can give him. You should be happy for him, not jealous. If the gf treats you right, then you shouldnt be feeling like this. You need to support your dad....youre being a big baby....all I can say.
2006-10-05 05:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being jealous. ur dad has a life too
2006-10-05 05:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HIS GURL A B*TCH AND SAY SHE NEEDS TO GET THE **** OUT OF YOUR HOUSE BEFORE U CALL THE POLICE ON THE HOE AND TELL THEM THAT SHE MALESTED U!!!!
THEN STICK THE BI*CH IN HER FACE AND IF U HAVE STAIRS PUSH HER DOWN THEM!!!!!
2006-10-05 05:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋