Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

2006-10-05 04:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex bf Matt and I brokeup 4months ago b/c I cheated on him.I know it was wrong.But before when him and I were friends he told me that all his gf's cheated on him especially his first love. But now he likes his ex gf Sara b/c she didn't cheat on him. But everytime she asks him about me and tries to make him talk about him and I and what we had he doesn't want to. Why? He talked about his other gf's cheating on him yet he won't talk to her abot me and what I did. Why is that?

2006-10-05 04:36:27 · 4 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

If there are 'so many fish in the sea', then why is it so hard to meet someone that you actually like? I keep hearing 'oh, there are so many lonely people in the world'. Huh? Why is everyone walking around so lonely? Why is it so hard for people to find one another?

2006-10-05 04:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What shld i do when my marriage is a disaster and i am beggining to lost my feelings towards hubby because he's just like can't be bothered and suddenly i kinda miss my ex again...Shld i still stay on with this marriage and tolerate hubby's attitude and bottle up my feelings instead or shld i just leave?Help me...

2006-10-05 04:36:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I took my kids on their first airplane ride I have always thought that the airlines should reserve "family" seating where kids can abuse other parents and not some poor single guy who just wants a nap. I can' tell you how many times I've gotten on a plane with all three of my boys and seen such terror on the faces of other passengers as I walk down the isle. I know they are thinking..."please keep going". I feel for them I really do ( so I drug my kids before every flight now). Doesn't it make sense to group us all together? The kids would have other kids to play with and the parents aren't going to feel so bad about their kids abusing you because yours will be returning the favor. And...restaurants...this is a huge pet peeve of mine. I do not take my kids to any restaurant that does not hand them crayons at the door. I expect people who go without kids to these places to know they are entering at their own risk.

2006-10-05 04:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

the pain and hurt is kiling me deep inside please help me i can not believe he would do this to me.

2006-10-05 04:34:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how often do u hav a fight vid ur loved one??
is it ok to ignore an issue or any sch thing, from been talked abt which could lead to a fight???

2006-10-05 04:34:38 · 12 answers · asked by RAJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this guy for about three months now. In bed I am a very active person and I do my best to please my man. The problems we have been having lately is that he is getting off before me. It happened once and I let it go. It happened twice and so I brought it up. After the third time I was really irritated. I know he feels bad as he followed the third incident asking me if I thought he was a bad lover. I don't think he is a bad lover and I told him that I just don't know why he can't hold on until I get there. Now he insists on being in control the entire time, which is fine but I like to be in control as well. How can I fix this cause I know I may have hurt him a little by being vocal. I want us to enjoy the sex we have together but not in a tense environment.

2006-10-05 04:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lived here for 1 1/2 years. She is having an affair and I caught her. We have been in counseling, and she has started another affair. She asked to date this person while we were having sex and I said no. One week later she asked me to move out. We have two children together (I think). I'm in between jobs(start new on Monday) and want custody of our children based on infidelity and marital cruelty (if there is such a thing). I'm a loving father, husband and friend to my wife and I don't deserve what I'm getting in return.

2006-10-05 04:34:08 · 13 answers · asked by 5heartbeats 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Austin and I have things in commen....

2006-10-05 04:33:46 · 10 answers · asked by steer_showen_chik 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a 4 year old and a 5 year old.

2006-10-05 04:33:30 · 25 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family

My mother is very protective and she wont let me go out without her. She dont even want me to have a boyfriend but I do anyway. She has always been this way but it was understandable when I was younger but now that I am 18 is seems to be more of her not trusting me than her protecting me. We havent really been getting alone lately and our way of fixing things are not working. What do you suggest I do to fix our relationship and get her to losen her reignes?

2006-10-05 04:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 in Family

my friend is moving in with her boyfriend of 2 months and i really don't think nits a good idea.

waayy too fast.

2006-10-05 04:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 04:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by Uma 2 in Family

Okay so some of you may have knoticed my last post about my friend who I have a crush on him and he has a crush on me, yadda yadda yadda... Well, I asked him and he said... yes!

^_^; now the only problem is should I tell my dad?

2006-10-05 04:32:38 · 17 answers · asked by Christina M 3 in Friends

He calls me every nite from his cell phone, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day because he works out of town. 2 yrs ago, he upgraded his cell phone service and bought 5 phones in the upgrade. He gave 1 phone to his daughter who is 25 yrs old, and 1 to her husband who is 30 yrs old, 1 to his 28 yr old son and 1 to his 15 yr old son and 1 to homself. He pays the cell phone service for all of these people. My cell phone service was up, so I went out and got my own contract for 1 phone. I am so mad, I have decided if he wants to be such a jerk about it, he can pay to call me and I switched companies. Now he wants my old cell phone and battery. No way! He was so inconsiderate, he can pay me for them. Do you think I am being petty? Opinoins please, maybe if you tell me I am being irrational, I will stop and give him my verizon cell phone and the $45 dollar battery I purchased for it 3 months ago.

2006-10-05 04:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about friends who will scheme to take your bf...girls who know this man is married and will try everything to steer him away...this hasn't happened to me personally but this happens frequently..are women that desperate nowadays???

2006-10-05 04:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by Cassie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay i want to be with my boyfriend so badly but I don't think he feels the sameway mean sometimes I believe him then sometimes I don't I mean when i speak my mind he's always hanging up I mean he tells me all the time that he loves me and I said if we was to ever break up what would happen he said I will always have a special place in my heart for you I just feel like I'm losing him. I'm slowing down because he was my first. That's why he think I'm not going nowhere I just want to know should I call him or give him space and let him call me. And I also want to know ways on not calling him first because he know I always call do

2006-10-05 04:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My social problems, i really need a bf ( i really some 1 to hug on and talk to, My dog doesn't work) But i'm way too shy to talk to any of the guys i know are interested in me, or even the ones i'm interested in! Are there ways to show your interested w/out having to, you know, talk? Or at least get them to talk first, that works to.....thanx

2006-10-05 04:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by Rinnie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 04:31:00 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

i was seeing this guy and then he told me he did not want to see me, he said it was not me it was him and then i just found out that he is talking to some one ele but i still llove him and want him back in my life i still cry over him iknow we were meant for each egther i just fell it in my heart and soul i know he still loves me he has not told his family about this girl and when we meet he told his family about me right way, and had me meet them rigth way.. all i now is i want him back and i love him and i fell like i am going crazying whit out him in my life,,,

2006-10-05 04:30:55 · 3 answers · asked by renee m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 04:30:52 · 2 answers · asked by cottoncandy41008 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I accused my husband telephonically(he is in Pakistan,I am in the Netherlands)that he is in touch with some other woman.He got very angry and the line broke(card).Since this time when I am calling again he doesn't answer any of my phone calls.This is now going on for three weeks.He also doesn't e-mail me anymore.I don't know what to do,I am desperate.Our realtionship got so good before this but now??I feel really bad and cry a lot.

2006-10-05 04:29:58 · 13 answers · asked by Vancouver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is depressed. His family was recently involved in a scandal that eventually became a struggle for them and tore my bf apart. I understand what he was going through though. I began to just not take things personally and understand that its not my fault. To just be by his side when he needs a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on or space when he needs to think. . I know eventually, things will soon be ok, but he loses hope every now and then. It hurts to see him this way.

It bothers me when people would say hurtful things like im not supposed to be treated this way, or that im taken for granted, or im a "martyr" for sticking with him... some just dont understand bec they just see the surface but not what's deeper. Some just dont know what is actually happening in his life and i felt like i really dont have to explain this to everyone who says stuff.
Please help me if u have this kind of situation... I mean, how do u cope if u ever have a loved one who is depressed?

2006-10-05 04:29:51 · 10 answers · asked by joe_logs_a_co 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex wife left my 14 and 18 yr old boys for a month while she went overseas and she didnt notify me or anyone on my side of the family. I'm taking her to court for custody on this reason and others such as signing out my oldest son from high school in 1 month of his 11th grade year . She denied me visitations for 2 years. Kids wear old clothes from yard sales and i pay alimony and child support as she tells them i send her no money. Oldest son now 20 lives with me in New Jersey and I'm trying to get his life straightened out. Youngest son wants to live with me and new family. She stated he could live here on a trial basis when she did allow him to visit as long as i paid for everything, she wouldn't even take him to the airport, Had to get his grand parents to do that. I stated child support should come back to me for its for the welfare of our son and not her. She had lawyer send me a threat letterto have him return. She didnt pick him up 3 days after she had his sister pick him up.

2006-10-05 04:29:29 · 13 answers · asked by jerlee64 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 04:29:07 · 2 answers · asked by traincracker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 23 and he's 35-- i know he has more life experience and education than me where we stand at the moment. i like him and i think we are pulled toward eachother a bit.

or do i just need a reality check?

2006-10-05 04:29:01 · 19 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Singles & Dating

Sorry for being too stupid. I am a foreigner.
I live here for quite long time but the relationship with men seems to be quite different than in my home country.
This is a no feedback land. You have a date and you both chat and smile and then nothing happens.
He is not into you as they say in “Sex in the city” fair enough. Where I came from you can ask “Why?” and get an answer and you both feel good about it. It doesn’t seems to be a custom here.
I want to know why.
What can be wrong with a girl or woman that makes men to end the relationship or not to date again.
Talks too much or not enough? Too big or too short? To rude or too sheepish? Different social background?

I am not disgruntled or try to be personal. I just want to hear some reasons to terminate relationships from men.

2006-10-05 04:28:56 · 4 answers · asked by Slavic Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 04:28:35 · 23 answers · asked by WantToForget 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiances brother is getting married and hasn't asked him to be in his wedding. I know he's hurt by this but If I ask he goes I'm fine, let it go and walks away. I've over heard him talking to his mom about it but he won't let me know that it bothers him. Last night he told me that he's not going to the wedding all together, and that he could care less anymore about his brother. Should I intervene or just let him be?

2006-10-05 04:28:08 · 18 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Other - Family & Relationships