Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

Me and my bf were broken up for 6 months and I decided to work things out. He left the last time because we were having too many fights (assumed I wasnt happy with him because I use to cry when we fight/when he hurts my feelings).
I made the move to try and get back together and give it one more chance. We still argue but not as much as before (also we dont live together anymore like we used to). But over a figt last weekend he told me that he had to give up his pride to be with me. Would you be upset? Would this make you call it quits? To me he is my pride, my love, I'd do anything for him (and I do!!!) I go out of my way for him and I am hurt coz when he said that he seemed so selfish, what about me?!?!

2006-10-05 04:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by xxginaleexx 1 in Singles & Dating

how long before they lay there, do you have to pick them up?? I mean, who else's husband is a total slob?? Or, do you throw a fit and make him do it?? Would a hamper help?

2006-10-05 04:15:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very vivid imagination and it doesn't take too much for me to be able to visualize what people are talking about but sometimes my thoughts won't be too innocent (if you know what I mean) and I will be able to see the senerio in my head and be turned on by it (but i don't want to get into too much detail).. Is this a normal reaction? How many others have a vivid imagination.. and please try to stick to answering the question instead of judging me because I asked..

2006-10-05 04:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by kalynn h 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 months and I think my new wife is going to cheat on me. We went to the movies last night and I noticed that the guy next us was touching my wife's leg. I told him to move it or get it broken off he said she put his hand there.She denied it and got very upset at me for making a scene in the theater.Called me over-protective and jealous. should i have left it alone ?

2006-10-05 04:14:57 · 45 answers · asked by Why are you still here 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 04:14:39 · 15 answers · asked by ladybird 3 in Family

I really want our marrige to work and I will do almost anything to get it to work. She does not sleep in the same bed anymore and I have a hard time with that. I really have changed and I hope that it is not too late.

2006-10-05 04:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by phillipsdaved 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 04:13:55 · 12 answers · asked by yupyup 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-05 04:13:30 · 14 answers · asked by chicagirl 1 in Friends

Not psycial abuse, what needs must be met? What about the home they live in?

2006-10-05 04:12:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 04:11:26 · 13 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help me understand how men think....

2006-10-05 04:10:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've just run a focus group on some children accessing social services. one of them was an eight yr old girl, with a serious blackeye and a badly broken leg, her case worker told me she'd been used as a punch bag for a while...

how? why? could somebody explain as i really don't understand at all. i'm seriously lost for words.

2006-10-05 04:10:56 · 15 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Family

when one gives his full affection ,love n care ,to his wife n expects from her that shee too cares for his parents n family,then why does he not get back the love n care from her n why does she live so care lessly n does not understand the pains of her husband.why she argues n then feels bad for the pain she gives to her husband n still does not change n improve. is it possible to change any ones nature n how can the husband change her attitude n nature.husband nows that she to loves him but she is not ready to change or adjuct with the needs of the family.he is lost in thoughts all day n has started to get depressed n is least interested to live life .he has become negative n has no expectation of happines n joy in life any more .nw how con he live happly with his parents,brothers nwife?

2006-10-05 04:10:52 · 2 answers · asked by tarun s 1 in Family

ok, i have a boi-friend and over the weekend he went out of town.....there was a game and i went but my ex-boifriend decided to show up. well we was talking and then he started huging me and holding me.....IF YOU WERE MY BOI-FRIEND WHAT WOULD YOU DO????WOULD YOU BREK UP WITH ME????/

2006-10-05 04:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do men make such ugly faces when they get an orgasm? My guy facial expressions look like he is being stabbed to death. Hi face is so crazy lookin when he gets HIS! Does it hurt?

2006-10-05 04:09:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i swear it was like the night we got married i was done, didnt want anything to do with him sexually, dont get me wrong my drive is still there....

2006-10-05 04:09:42 · 17 answers · asked by b utter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I stumbled onto my wife having a few mens phone numbers on her cell phone not long ago. I was trading my old cell phone with her and when I asked about the numbers, she started deleting them on the spot! I asked her if she was deleting something and she told me a bald faced lie "NO".

I then figured out the names were of old boyfriends. When I asked her why she lied she told me because I would get mad. I was livid! The fact she lied to me and broke a promise we made we would not longer speak to old lovers.

I went on a mission, I found her old phone records and found out she had been talking to two of them for at least a year. I down loaded the records and found she was calling them constantly and more than they called her. I told her she was having a non-sexual intimate relationship with these two and it had to stop.

She then lied yet again and told me she stopped. I've asked what are they doing that I'm not. Please help me.

I just found out they have been talking for 4yr

2006-10-05 04:09:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok. i was talking to this guy who i have known for about 2 1/2 years. and i've like him for that long too. but we never reallly talked like that. so we recently just started talking and hanging out and he told me that he liked me. well i was in a relationship and he told me that i should just break up with my bf and we'll "hang out." so i did and my bf was an a** to me anyways so it was ok. he told my friend that he liked me and could see us together. so we kept talking. well then all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. so i question his actions. i asked him if there was something i did wrong that he stopped talking to me and he said no. i asked him why he had me break up with my bf if nothing was happening with me and him and he said he never told me that he said that. so i said w/e and asked him if he really did like me and he said yea but he couldn't see me as his gf. he doesn't know why but he just can't. so what should i do? i've cried and thought of reasons why but idk...

2006-10-05 04:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by lil me 1 in Friends

I need help does any one have an account with reunion.com that can help, I need the a phone number for someone its an emergency and I have looked and looked and can't find it anywhere
It is for Susanna K Collins or Jeffery A. Collins
she is 41 and the only thing I have is they live in Michigan their old cities were Port Huron, Alma, Broken Arrow, OK but they still reside in Michigan
thank you so much if you can help.....

2006-10-05 04:07:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a girl online six months ago. We spoke on the phone for 3 months and I have found her to be an amazing person. I met her 3 months ago and I thought she was gorgeous as soon as I laid eyes on her. I asked her to marry me on the day I met her. We married a few days ago and started living together. In the weeks after I proposed, I started to find her physically unattractive sometimes, but overall she was great and I married her on the basis of her personality. Now that we are married and living together, I am getting scared. Her personality is still amazing, but I look at her sometimes and I do not find her attractive and get scared at what I have done. What do I do? Am I am just being an immature, self-centred idiot who is scared of commitment? Do we separate after a few days of marriage despite the fact that she really loves me and is a better person than me and that I love her? I won't even mention the massive expense of the wedding and the fact that both our families love us.

2006-10-05 04:07:22 · 26 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 04:07:17 · 9 answers · asked by Harriet 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing standup comdy on Friday night and this is the joke Im gonna end with:

"If a man says his opinion and no woman hears it, is he still wrong?"

LMFAO.

2006-10-05 04:07:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no offense guys i love u all but sometimes i feel like smacking the hell outta u..muhahaha

2006-10-05 04:07:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and now I am alone (in my heart) without him. I can't bare the thought that I will always have to live thinking this, I know it will never pass, does anyone else feel the same?

2006-10-05 04:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would a guy that you have been seeing for almost 2 months now not want a relationship? When we are together I call it dating he calls it hanging out. I asked him if we were exclusive he says yes. He plans are dates. He wants to spend time with me. Is it he just isn't into me? Because that's what I feel. But yet when I asked him that he said how much more does he need to be into me. We hang out, we talk everyday either on phone, email or IM's. I am 26 he is 31. I want a relationship and he says he doesn't but his action are throwing me off. I know I can't change his mind on wanting a relationship but why is he leading me on??? We haven't had sex but we have talked about it. We have fooled around but that's it. Please help me. I'm so confused. Why is this man making me feel like he wants a relationship but yet he say's he doesn't. Is it just to get into my pants? Doesn't want to be alone? WHY???HELP!!

2006-10-05 04:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

He likes looking forward to doing different things and going different places...Where can we go that's fun but doesn't cost so much? We live at a beach and summer is over so our weekends aren't spent at the beach anymore. We may go to a football game this month, but what else can we do to get away and make him look forward to fun things???

2006-10-05 04:04:58 · 17 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

ok!before me and my boyfriend moved,whenever we hung out with my relly good friend i would always look at my boyfriend and he would be completely staring at my friend.she would even look at him and he would keep staring.usually when you get caught staring at somebody you look away really fast.ya know?but he wouldnt,and i mean he would be staring at her for hours and hours.the whole time we were hangen out.does that mean he wants her or what?i need some help.i asked him about it and all he would say was he wasnt looking at her at all,but me and my friend saw him.so whats going on with that.and now that we moved,i introduced him to one of my new friends and he stares at her now.i caught him looking down her shirt and all.i mostly just want to know if he wants my friend back home.cause if you stare at someone that long doesnt it mean you are really attracted to them?this may sound like a stupid question and i am not some young girl so dont tell me to grow up.i want a guys opinion on this.

2006-10-05 04:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone have any ideas of a gift that incorporates something sentimental(she has 3 grand daughters and my husband is her only child) Something that involves pictures or just anything? Any suggestions would be very helpful!! Thank you!

2006-10-05 04:04:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 04:03:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Unshaven/unwaxed private areas... you know, all natural! Even some men are been conscious of not trimming. What's the deal?

2006-10-05 04:03:32 · 12 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Singles & Dating