and now I am alone (in my heart) without him. I can't bare the thought that I will always have to live thinking this, I know it will never pass, does anyone else feel the same?
2006-10-05 04:07:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It will pass, given time...trust me. I was in the same boat a few years ago (although it was not my father). The grief never fades, it just gets easier to deal with.
2006-10-05 04:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by DaveyMcB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you allow yourself to feel you are alone? Talk to your father in your mind and your heart. Tell him the things that you need to sort out in your life.
Wait softly for the answers to flood your mind. Then you will know that your father truly never left you.
From the far distance he sees and feels more than was ever possible when he was alive.
He is still your strength.You just have to find another way to listen.
He brought you up to be strong and brave. Celebrate his life not his passing.
You have to forgive him for dying and start to move to a new place in your life.
You want him to look down on you and smile at how you are living your life don't you?
Then right now, look up towards the sky and make a pact with him that you are ready to be strong again.
You will feel the warmth of his support, I promise you.
Take care and be strong.
2006-10-05 04:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone, for your father is beside you everyday and comes around you all the time. You are never without him, he's in your heart forever and in your memories for ever. Give it time and the pain will eventually fade and you will begin to feel whole again. If talking about it helps then perhaps you should talk to someone with experience. If not, talk to him out loud before you go to sleep at night and perhaps he'll make an appearance in your dreams and you can tell him how much you love him. And he'll tell you that he wants YOU to BE HAPPY!!! And to get back into life, because your grieving in making you miss many fun moments. good luck! Feel better!!!
2006-10-05 04:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loss of a beloved parent hits us all hard. But after this length of time you should be starting to look back with happiness and joy at the time you shared with your father, not solely feeling desolate without him.
Perhaps its time to get some professional bereavement counselling. They can help you open the door to remembering good times and carrying your love for your father always, without constantly being in pain.
i wish you every happiness x
2006-10-05 04:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by salvationcity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. It takes a long long time to get over it, but you will. My father was murdered a couple of years ago and i still think of him every single day. I loved him to pieces .
There are sites dedicated specially to people who have lost loved one's and they will help and support you. Just remember that you will always have good memories and as time passes the pain will dim. :)
2006-10-05 04:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As time passes it will become easier to deal with but you will never forget him & why should you? I'm in the same situation although it's been more than four years. Just think what he would want you to do and make him proud.
2006-10-05 04:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss, but trust me when I say that things WILL get better. I'm not promising that things will change anytime soon, it could be years, but the longer you spend grieving and mourning the death of your father, the less time you'll have to celebrate his life. You should get started on the celebration and live the way your father would have wanted you to.
2006-10-05 04:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Alyssa Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my father when I was only five and still now I miss him terribly. Life will go on and he will always have a place in your heart.
He wouldn't want you to live a half or no life he would want the best for you so you owe to live a full life for him and for you.
I'm sure his your guardian angel
I'm sorry for your loss
2006-10-05 04:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Evana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. My dad died 3 years ago in August and it still hurts. I dont know how your dad died but mine passed away suddenly from a massive heart attack on my mums birthday and noone saw it coming. I still suffer from panic attacks over it and still find it hard to talk about. My dad was also my mentor and very strong I miss him so much sometimes it feels like a physical pain in my chest. I wish you well and hope you can find solace please feel free to contact me should you feel like talking further. Best wishes Suex
2006-10-05 04:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by droopydrawers38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. However I am sure that your father would never want you to stop living your life because he is gone. I do not want to get religious but I say live a good and happy life and you will see him again.
2006-10-05 04:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋