how do i get this guy back?

Question

i was seeing this guy and then he told me he did not want to see me, he said it was not me it was him and then i just found out that he is talking to some one ele but i still llove him and want him back in my life i still cry over him iknow we were meant for each egther i just fell it in my heart and soul i know he still loves me he has not told his family about this girl and when we meet he told his family about me right way, and had me meet them rigth way.. all i now is i want him back and i love him and i fell like i am going crazying whit out him in my life,,,

Answer 1

talk to him

Answer 2

I know its hard when you are sure that you are meant for each other. Sometimes though you just have to let them go. You have to believe if you are really meant to be together it will happen but it may be later on. And he probably told you it was him not you cause that is a classic dumping strategy and if you look at it properly it is true. The person doing the dumping doesn't have the same feelings as the person being dumped. It doesn't mean that anything is wrong with the one being dumped just the dumper doesn't have the feelings for the other person anymore. Give it some time.

Answer 3

ok. when he says "its not me, its you" that ALWAYS means that it you. he probably hasn't told his family about the new girl cuz either she's not respectable or she's a crackwhore. he might have showed u to his family cuz u look nice and respectable or something. guys like dangerous girls. his parents probably dont so maybe thats why he wont show her 2 his parents. theres someone 4 everybody. i like the dangerous girls. and u just need to get over him and move onto someone else. find someone thats just like him except with the personality and stuff that your last boyfriend didnt have. then walk around with him around your old boyfriend to show your old boyfriend that you have moved on and your not sheding any tears over him. that shows that your a strong woman and that nothing ever gets u down.