What shld i do when my marriage is a disaster and i am beggining to lost my feelings towards hubby because he's just like can't be bothered and suddenly i kinda miss my ex again...Shld i still stay on with this marriage and tolerate hubby's attitude and bottle up my feelings instead or shld i just leave?Help me...
2006-10-05 04:36:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nobody on here knows you, your husband, or the kind of relationship you both share. So, getting the "right" answer, is impossible.
I don't recommend staying in a marriage, when you're utterly unhappy. It's highly unhealthy, not just for you, but for all parties involved. Don't make things about your ex. I'm assuming you had a somewhat happy relationship with your ex, for you to be missing it in times of need, but maybe that's all it is. Maybe you're comparing your environments, and not what you actually felt for both men, as individuals.
Who knows? Only you do.
Listen to your head, and follow your heart.
2006-10-05 04:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Work on the marriage first. You made a commitment so don't give up without trying. It is difficult to maintain feelings of love when u have been together for a long time. You can try conselling ... there is also some sites with good marriage building advice :
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=pto-20030507-000001&page=1
good luck!
2006-10-05 20:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by peaceful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, thats completly counter productive to your heath, Marriage is hard and you have to work at it. So kee p tryin but If he causes you tha much distress, move on. Its the twentyfirst century Divorce is perfectly fine. People falll out of love just as fast a the fell in
2006-10-05 04:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long things have been bad and how much effort has been put into fixing it.
Dont go from one man to another.
2006-10-05 04:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Obviously he isn't doing something right if your thinking of your ex. Never go back always move forward! good luck!
2006-10-05 04:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy helps a lot Have you tried to talk to him
2006-10-05 04:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMSUIAO I would love to know the outcome if he had christened you Jehosephat LOL
2016-03-18 05:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋