If there are 'so many fish in the sea', then why is it so hard to meet someone that you actually like? I keep hearing 'oh, there are so many lonely people in the world'. Huh? Why is everyone walking around so lonely? Why is it so hard for people to find one another?
2006-10-05 04:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The trick to fishing is only keeping what your really want. I think that if there are alot of lonely people in the world they choose that way of life. There is the right person out there but you have to test them to find the right one. You never know if the one that you think would be perfect may have flaws that you never realized. The reason that is seems hard to find each other is because you have to work at it. They are out there and probably just walked by you recently but you never took the time to take off the blinders and look around
2006-10-05 04:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, all I know is if you look for someone too hard you don't ever find the right one and when you run into someone they are never the right one I used to be okay with this because I was afraid fo commitment and marrigage but now I think I want marriage but I am so afraid and I knwo as long as I am afrad I won;t have a meaningful relationship and that is why it is so hard, I am to the point I just want to give up but I dont' want to continue dabbling in meaningless relationships either
2006-10-05 12:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really odd. I have just thought I had found someone who would really work for me and now I am coming to realize that the guys is over anxious to have children and can not talk about anything else (and I dont want to have children, nor if I wanted, I would have them with someone I have just met), so there are many people but it is a miracle to find a compatible person.
2006-10-05 11:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the "miracle" of Love.
Here we are, there we go, busy, busy,busy with our lives and responsiblities, how many times do we say to ourselves " today, I'm going to devote myself in searching for my "soul-mate" ? (except guys, we're always looking or looking to improve, lmao) But seriously, there are special circumstances for two people to fall in love and those don't come by every moment of the day, there are variables : the place, the time, your mood, what you're occupied with at the moment, gosh seems like hundreds of variables.
What I have noticed is when I look for someone, no one is there to find but when I'm not thinking about it, BINGO! there she is.....
Be patient, be yourself and be true always.
2006-10-05 11:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all the little nibbling that we do at each relationship. we grow and find it harder and harder to find someone who can fulfill all our needs and wants! as you get older, that gets harder....
good luck!
2006-10-05 11:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm alone....
2006-10-05 11:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋