MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN ARUGING ALOT LATELY ABOUT DUMB STUFF AND IT'S MAKING ME MAD. WE RECENTLY BROKE UP BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES TO ME ASKING HIM A QUESTION ABOUT WHERE OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING/HEADED, HE GET'S DENFESIVE OR SIMPLY WON'T ANSWER. SHOULD I BE MAD? IM TRYING TO KEEP OUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, GO TO SCHOOL FULL TIME AND WORK AND IT SEEMS LIKE WHEN IT COMES TO THE RELATIONSHIP IT'S ALL ON MY SHOULDERS. ANY ADVICE WILL BE GREATFUL
2006-10-05 04:59:36 · 12 answers · asked by trecypooh03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends, did he talk to you before? Take a step back get a paper and pen and write down all the good things and bad things about this man..if you have more bad then good run! If he cared and now he doesn't give a rats *** then he might be tired of you and fighting all the time is not going to do any thing but make him leave.Here's a web site that might help.
2006-10-05 05:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by cody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the bairer of bad news but dump him already. It sounds like hes not intrested in taking it any further imho. If he was that bothered about a future with you he would come out and say it. Its a much used statement but there really are many more fish in the sea and if he really is at all intrested he would try and stop you going. Thats my take on the issue perhaps someone will disagree with me.
2006-10-05 12:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arachne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get mad behind it. Guys don't like to constantly to be asked questions like, where is this relationship going. As long as you to are having a good relationship, with out you asking where it is going. Then just let it go and enjoy the ride.
2006-10-05 12:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by feelicious101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about marriage, or your coming anniversary. If he's being a jerk about the latter one, then perhaps he's in the relationship for the moment. You have to decide whether, thats what YOU want. If you don't maybe, you should bite the bullet and look for some who is interested in a long term commitment.
2006-10-05 12:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to talk to you about your relationship, its pointless to keep trying. Relationships involve 2 people. It sounds like your in it alone. Find someone worth your time. If he really wants to move on with you, he will come back to you.
2006-10-05 12:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to dump him or at least take a break. You already have enough stress dealing with school and work.
2006-10-05 12:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by teenuhrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone for a little bit. Continue doing what you do but, give him space.
2006-10-05 12:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your trying to better yourself so to make it complete try finding someone new
2006-10-05 12:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool and compromise. explain politely to him to cooperate for better living and discuss any thing in cool way.
2006-10-05 12:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD BE MAD CAUSE HE COULD NOT HAVE FELT THE SAME WAY IF HE NEVER ANSWERED
2006-10-05 12:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Gaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋