2006-10-05 05:04:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sure do. We rushed it now I want to go back.
2006-10-05 05:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by tator_197730 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes in alot of ways. And no in alot of ways.
I don't think it is actually the marriage I regret more than the mistakes I made, and the things that I let go unmentioned or unaddressed that he did.....which eventually led to me having a conflict of interest, and change of heart.
But I do still love him........yet I know we can't be together and he is very bad for me. It's a catch twenty two. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am getting divorced, and i KNOW it is what I need to be doing........but my emotions have me swaying every which way. And some days (like lately) I wish I could be in ignorant bliss again so that I could still stay with him.
Getting married was beautiful because it was done in truth, and in love, and it was pure. It is one of the best things I've ever done.
That is a very good question......and I am so very conflicted.
2006-10-05 05:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will wonder at times if you made a mistake. You can't go through marriage checking how you feel about it moment by moment. Love is an emotion, and it ebbs and flows, ever-changing. Sometimes you'll wake up and not think you love anyone that day! But it is the commitment to something you build on that keeps you going and knowing the good in the person keeps you in it. All bets are off if you marry a creep that is either dangerous or destructive, of course, but courtship is to discern this early on. Don't ignore telling signs and then complain LATER about what you chose. We will be celebrating 30 years in December, and have 5 children. All what is truly important, my husband and I agree on. What we don't agree on, we chalk up to personality differences and we allow each other the right to disagree respectfully. But on serious issues we're together and we admire each other. We love each other's company and feel great comfort in sharing our time with each other. Is that love? SOMETIMES ! :)
2006-10-05 05:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Orquidea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
And we have had some whopper of fights, some trust issues and sometimes we have a hard time communicating.
However, I couldn't see my life with out the man I married. I think that every marriage will have ups and downs. It's how you handle them, together, that makes all the difference.
NO REGRETS!!!
2006-10-05 05:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you regret getting married
2006-10-05 05:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everday of my life I wake up roll over and look at my husband and wonder what was I thinking to marry him.
I wish that I had not married him because he is not the person I should be spending the rest of my life with. he is not abusive or a cheat he is just not my sould mate.
I should be married to a man that makes me wake up every morning thing about how wonderful he is. Instead I wake up hoping that in the near future my husband will either leave or die so that I can find my soul mate.
2006-10-05 05:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there will be times when I will regret it. But right now I'm newly wed and its been the best decision Ive made so far in my life. We both went into this marriage knowing there will be times when we'll want to murder each other, but we know marriage is hard work! Whats worth having, is worth working for.
2006-10-05 05:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret NOT getting married. And I never will.
2006-10-05 05:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any couple who has been married long enough will have these thoughts at some point. All marriages have the ups and downs. Whats important is that you love and respect each other.
2006-10-05 05:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by angl2839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, more than once. But if you will follow what the bible says and do all things to please God and your husband, then you won't have time to think about it.
I must tell you that I spent the past 5 years of my life trying to figure a way to get out of my marriage. We even separated. With 4 children together, I was still confident I could do better by myself. When I gave my life back to Jesus, I knew that I couldn't go to the altar asking for a divorce with my salvation, so, my husband and I are trying to work things out. The first few months were the worse. I even started to resent my religion that brought me back to this man that I was sure that I hated. But I still waited for my sign. I still don't remember getting a sign... but I do remember asking myself one day what would make me happy. I was still convinced that y soul mate was out there somewhere and I just had to get free to find him. Then, I pondered that question of what would make me happy. My answer was a surprise to me. My husband wasn't a bad man or bad father. He isn't the most brilliant of creatures, but he certainly isn't the dumbest either. I decided that I couldn't be happy hurting him or my children with another plan of divorce. So, the question is still there, what would make me happy. I think I could be happy helping other people. I believe that children are our future and hope to work with children one day. I have other plans in the future, but they all include my husband. God really does do wonderful things in your life if you let him. Pray about your problems.
2006-10-05 05:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that the marriage is what we have a tendency to regret; as much as the person we married!!
2006-10-05 06:21:56 · answer #11 · answered by angelmommahalsel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋