how do i get over being shy, so i can talk to the guy of my dreams?

Question

i'll never find anybody if i stay this shy....whut do i do?

Answer 1

I'm shy around guys too...just smile a lot, and perhaps think of them naked.....but don't laugh! Well, laugh if theres something funny obviously...meet some nice people. Go places. Choose different places, like up mountains and round fields to walk with him, not boring normal places. Talking to him should be easy.,..and if it's not....he's not THE ONE

Answer 2

Are you only shy with guys, or are you shy in general with everyone? What used to be called shyness is now sometimes diagnosed as social anxiety disorder. Do some research on that & see if what you have goes beyond shyness.
You know the advice you're going to get here is going to be to just start talking to people. To smile, say hello, and develop a friendship with a guy. That's pretty much just what you have to do, start talking to people. Good luck.

Answer 3

I totally had the same problem, but i was shy w/ everyone.Finally i got tired of it, i told myself that it was ridiculous, that i wsan't going to say something stupid or embarr. when i opened my mouth and then... well i started small. Talk to the clerks in stores and gas stations, people behuind u in lines, etc. just find som. around to comment on, the next thing u know your having a conversation. Soon u will be good at striking up a conv. w/ a total stranger w/out even thinking about it. Be confident in who you are and willing to let others see what makes u great.

Answer 4

I would practice with someone other than the guy of your dreams....you'd be surprised how good you'll get if you practice small talk with your friends, parents etc.. Then talk to the guy of your dreams and you'll say something other than: HELLCOOECEBLA...

Answer 5

find something u have in common and try to start a conversation on that subject

or get one of ur friends to introduce each other

Answer 6

take a deep breath and trust urself..