i have a friend who had a strong attraction for me before and well still probably does. but i dont know why he told me he careda bout me as a friend and did'nt want to hurt me and i asked if i got shot would you care. yeah basically he's done things to me i can't imagine why. humping my chair while i'm sitting in it. caressing my hair. grabbing me. hugging me. talked about my breast. etc. the thing is he had a girl but they broke up cause he was'nt really happy with her and he wants to see her again in a couple of months plus he misssed talking to me and he wanted to get in contact with me. i think he's planning something towards me
2006-10-05 05:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I can't even keep track of all the friends I've asked "If I got shot would you care?" What kind of question is that?! I'm worried about the both of you but I'm very worried about that poor chair that's getting humped
2006-10-05 05:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be a friend if u think he wants to rape you. If some1 is doing things 2 u that u don't like---Open Your Mouth and Say Something----"I don't like that for starters". If you keep your mouth shut--they believe what they are doing is O.K. being that u never called them out on it. No man has the right 2 touch & feel a woman without her consent. What he is doing is sexual harassment. Please believe me! Say something, especially if your around a group of friends and he is doing this. If he is planning something 2wds u (I pray not) , some1 can state u told him about his behavior. If ur in a group when he's doing this(and u say nothing), and he try you-- they figure u like that. That is what they will say in court. Stay away from him & find a better friend that will treat u with respect.
2006-10-05 12:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by BK1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your instincts,,they will never fail you.Get this person out of your life,,tell him that you are busy with something else or make him think that you are seeing someone else & that they visit often.Do not tell him this in person but perhaps over the phone.After a couple weeks,,tell him your new boyfriend is the jealous type & doesnt want any other guys around when he is not there.Do whatever you have to but get out.The vibes are bad,,listen to them.
2006-10-05 12:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He humped your chair!!! LMAO Keep your friendship to phone conversations and tell him you think he's gonna rape you
2006-10-05 12:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously think he's going to hurt you, you need to tell someone about the situation, and never let yourself be alone with him.
2006-10-05 12:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you used the word "rape". That should be the first clue that something is WRONG here!!! RAPE is a CRIME.
2006-10-05 12:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ever be alone with this weirdo, if you think he is planning to rape you why are you ever around him at all????/ thats some serious **** stay away!
2006-10-05 12:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to cut contact with him tell him to be gone if he scares you that bad
2006-10-05 12:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for some odd reasson you sound kinda fascinated by that thought. maybe you are stuck on him
2006-10-05 12:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by ABC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are paranoid
2006-10-05 12:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by karren b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋