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Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

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How do you go about this? I had a GF ask me to play out a rape fantasy with her. I was afraid someone would think it was real and I would end up in jail. How do you set up the details without ruining the surprise/stranger aspect? She gave me her key and wanted me to "break in" one night.

2006-10-03 06:36:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i bcome an ag pilot i not gonna go 2 college. but if i join the army theyll pay 4 me 2 go 2 college. i really like both jobs but i not gettin the support i need.

2006-10-03 06:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to get along with her, but all she wants to do is bad mouth him. He is a good dad, but the kids and her think he is too strict. If I agree with him, then I am the enemy. She likes me as long as I don't agree with him.
She thinks it is ok for the kids to lie to him. The kids live with us every other week. They are 14 and 16. This has been going on for 5 yrs. How can I be friends with her and not have to take sides with her and the kids. He is a great Dad and is completely devoted to his kids, and they think he is an idiot. What would you do? I've talked to him and he says he can't do anything about the way she talks about him to the kids.

2006-10-03 06:35:21 · 11 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Family

Three months ago my husband ended a 6 month affair he had been having with an ex-coworker who lives about an hour away. I found emails in our computer that gave explicit details of their encounters. Needless to say, I was shocked. I thought we were totally happy! We have children together, the youngest one is 2. We are going to counseling together. He seems like a more caring man now and is more committed than ever to our marriage. The question he has yet to answer is...WHY? We have a great sex life, great social life. The bi*ch he cheated with is ugly and nasty looking so I know it wasn't physical attraction. She's older than me, and from reading her emails, she seems kinda stupid. The only thing he told me is that the chase was better than the catch, and I did nothing wrong, it was all him. I still do not understand, nor will I ever. Please help me out with this from a male pont of view. I NEVER thought I would be in this position.

2006-10-03 06:35:16 · 25 answers · asked by LadyLee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i want to downgrade my relationship with my boyfriend how do i do this without upsetting him. I'm thinking we should be friends with benifits at least until we finish college. im afraid though if i say this he will want us to be over all-together. i want him in my life but being his girlfriend is too stressfull

2006-10-03 06:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by bloomingflower 3 in Singles & Dating

in retaliation for the great shrimp fiasco of 2006?

2006-10-03 06:33:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think you will ever have it fulfilled?

2006-10-03 06:33:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for 2 years and we just felt there was too big of a difference in our ages for it to work. There were 22 years between us. But we loved each other and he found this new girl a month after we broke up and now they are getting married in 3 weeks (it’s only been 2 months he has known her). Regardless he still tells me he loves me and that he is in love with her but loves me. It means a lot to him that I go to the wedding but I don’t know. on one hand I want to go just so that I can let him know im done and I don’t care anymore and on the other hand I just don’t feel like dealing with it at all. I mean his new wife hates me because he told her he still loves me and always will. I don’t love him anymore it’s just all the memories. I am trying to start new relationship and he doesn’t approve because we are different races but I don’t need his approval and I just don’t know how to let him know I don’t want to be a part of his new life. And how do I make him let me go?

2006-10-03 06:32:36 · 52 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Weddings

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i am a simple person,helps everyone but in return people hate me.one person i love him soo much but in return he prefers my worst enemies better then me & when i try to tell him abt them he says ur worst than anybody else.in this case what can i do?remain silent or sit between them?
this hurts me alot when he ignores me & smiles them.i get dead mentally.help me or else.i get my self..............help me people.
how can i remain happy?
how i make him know that they r bad?
how can i survive?

2006-10-03 06:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Doctor Horror 1 in Friends

Im a 21 year old girl, Ive never had a boyfriend I ve liked boys, and no boy has ever had the guts to ask me out its not just that

my mum wouldnt allow me to have a boyfriend plus Ive got to marry a man from my religion, I was inlove with this boy and I know hes not my religion however he acted strangely and I ignored him,

but for some reason its been some time now and I really feel gutted not having anyone , and the thing is I dont even know how to find a guy from my religion where I live there aint guys of my religion, and I still have feelings for the boy I igonred and feel why I did that to him, but I feel I was right ad he was behaving bad with me, but I feel so stupid

Im seruious I went college concentrated in collgege and got good result which is good thing, but I feel so sad that I have no one

I feel life is pointless, I feel so alone and weak maybe I am

I want help and dont know what to do

2006-10-03 06:32:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say u love this guy and you;ve been hiding ur relationship away from ur family and some how they find out. thenur family and everyone judge him by the mistakes he;s made. i mean people make mistakes all the time and it doesn't mean they should be held for them. what if u try so hard to prove him worthy and nothing works. what if he is the only one thats been there seens ur parents died and no one seems to understand.and u know that he is not the person to lie to u cause u have so much in common and u both been through so much in ur past years and the 2 of u understand each other like no one could. AND WHAT IF U ARE ONLY 14YEARS OLD AND SCARED.

2006-10-03 06:32:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 06:31:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged and am looking for a fun and cute way to ask a few friends if they would like to be my bridesmaids. Something inexpensive besides just calling them or taking them to lunch!! Also, if you have any advice for the grooms asking too that would be great!

2006-10-03 06:31:38 · 9 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Weddings

My and my ex boyfriend were together for around a year and a half. We had some really nice times and we had our ups and downs mainly arguments caused by stupid things or me being silly. Well he split up with me around 3 and a hlf weeks ago. I do really miss him and i saw him the other night and we talked but he feels like i am holding onto something when i am trying not to.He tried to pin the blame of everything on me sayin i took him for granted but I kno i cared for him and loved him alot. He wants to be friends with me but he feels like one minute he is fine and the next he get aggitated saying he feels like i always have to be there when he is when this is not true i go down the pub with his friends origionally but they are my friends to. So i said to him well if you are going to b horrible then i will not talk and he sed im sorry i will be nice but i feel he has hurt me enough anyway now. But i do want to be friends but i wish we could be again he ses he does think about me. helpx

2006-10-03 06:31:24 · 8 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very good student and down to earth,really.I just follow trends and fashion and people i used to hang out with(not my best friends) look at me sideways in a quirky manner because of the way i dress.Although I could have been the geek i don't snub them!they do.....

2006-10-03 06:31:10 · 2 answers · asked by Demi 2 in Friends

Please explain your answers.

(This ought to be interesting!)

I'll reserve comments on my thoughts until I hear yours.
Thanks for sharing.

2006-10-03 06:31:09 · 13 answers · asked by Robert 5 in Family

ME AND HER BEEN GOING THRU A LOT OF THINGS LIKE FIGHTING AND IT ALWAYS BE MY FAULT AND I LAWAYS BE GETTING ADVICE FROM PEOPLE BUT ITS NOT WORKING I NEED REAL PEOPLE TIO HELP ME AND THEY ALWAYS SAY IF U NEED HELP CALL ME AND EVERY TIME I DO THEY NEVER BE AROUND AND I GET INTO IT WITH HER LIKE ALL THE TIME AND I NEED HELP SO PLEASE IF U CAN READ THIS AND HELP ME WITH A COUPLE OF ADVICE.

2006-10-03 06:30:41 · 10 answers · asked by troyson09 1 in Family

in the biggest puddle after the rain stopped but got completely soaked .
Why didn't anyone warn me it was the Thames river and not a puddle??

2006-10-03 06:29:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 06:28:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i hope you all get what i am about to say........ okay well i got a kiss from my best friend on sunday coz i sorta just said " kiss me "
and he looked at me seriously and did it !!!! so yeah i was like AWWWW........ now i really think he likes me and i think i sorta him ( but some times i feel i dont like him more than a friend ) and now all my other friends found out about this kiss thing and now they say im indenial and im starting to believe them coz it is a on and off thing and right now ima confused on what to do !!! he told me i was the most beautiful gurl he had seen !!!! (AWWW) idk what to do but i did enjoy the kiss ...... and idk how i feel about him !!! what should i do ????



thank you !!!

2006-10-03 06:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by blink182luver_7 1 in Singles & Dating

First off, I want to state that this isn't ME..it's a single friend's situation.

Okay, so, situation is:

You get into a purely physical relationship. And it is stated that from the beginning - a booty call friend.

When one of you calls it off. The other says "Well, when you want to start hooking up again - let me know." and the reply you get is "I think you are being selfish about this whole thing."

She, of course, wasn't expecting this reply. Did he start to feel something? Because that's what those types or relationships are - selfish, yes?

2006-10-03 06:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 06:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by durhkm 2 in Family

I need to get the hell away from my boyfriend. My dad won't co-sign. I dont have enough credit, and I don't make three times the rent. but I do make enough to afford the place.

2006-10-03 06:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Actually man should be much worry for it, because when the girl get exciting, she might bite on your stick accentially. But since it is so much fun for 69, I don't mind to take this risk.

2006-10-03 06:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

day, she's really shy and doesnt talk to me alot. Only a hi when she's quickly rushing by during passing periods. What am I supposed to do? Does she hate me or something?

2006-10-03 06:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have received a lot of responses within the first 30 minutes of posting my first question, almost everybody selected B, with the acception of one and one really good answer selecting B for relationship and A for a fling. If you all are wondering I am B, I am attractive, I'm 33, have a good job, live in a nice place, just got a new car, not an SUV, how could you with gas prices. And guy A that I refer to is more of co-worker than friend, has the same job, pretty much everything is the same but he is more athletic and he treats every woman he's been with like a piece of meat, uses and abuses. Well for my question, if the majority of the answers are B, how come whenever this guy and I go out together, either a bar after work or Dunkin Donuts for coffee on our break, every girl will flock to him, I do understand that looks are how you make your first judgement but I can tell what kind of person someone is even by talking to them briefly, how can I find the girls that responded with B.

2006-10-03 06:25:33 · 8 answers · asked by John H 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy and wana propose to my best friend, but I am looking for not so serious relationship…how shall I tell her tht same, when I propose her?

I wana tell her to have an not so serious relationship with me and maybe if we later think that we are better off as friends, we get back together as friends at a later stage and dissolve the relationship thing completely.

See I wana go for the relationship with her, even if I not sure about my feelings or whatever…. I just wana see how far I can go… and yes No-sex is gona be involved in all this....

So tellme what will be the right thing to say and make her understand my feelings/my views in an not so offending manner

2006-10-03 06:23:57 · 14 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Singles & Dating

Jewellery, cigarettes, lipstick, etc. Is this a conscious decision? Unconsciously trying to create an illusion that it'll be more than this once? Or looking for an excuse for a call? Happens nearly all the time.

2006-10-03 06:23:53 · 30 answers · asked by lycidas 2 in Singles & Dating

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