Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

2006-10-03 07:09:39 · 13 answers · asked by ♥DiNoSh♥ 2 in Family

My husband asked me a question last night that I really couldnt answer, My exboyfriend and I we hardly ever faught, And I was always trying so hard to make him proud, but with my husband we argue and he doesnt think i listen to him like I did my ex and I know thats true. but I dont really know why I love tony more than I ever loved jimmy, And I know that I mean the world to him he adores me. So why do I argue with him and why did I do so much to make jimmy proud of me was it because he expected more out of me, maybe its just that tony loves me the way that I am so I dont have to try to be someone i'm not, I'm afraid he thinks that its because jimmy was more important to me than he is or maybe I respected him more.
thats not it though I cant really explain it in words. hopefully someone here can help me out,

2006-10-03 07:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by rebeccaangel2004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 07:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by khalifa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i met this guy threw a guy friend of mine. He was very shy at first but i somehow got him to open up to me. And he is very sweet and respectful. And i think i am starting to have feelings for him. We became friends but heres the thing. I just found out im the only girl in his life and he has never had a girl friend. so my question is what should i do and is it wierd for an 19 year old to not have any other lady friends. {{im 18}} thanx

2006-10-03 07:08:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A co-woerker set me up with a friend's brother. He seemed nice just hearing about him, but after talking to him myself, I'm not thrilled with the idea. I graduated from College with 2 degrees, and he was telling me on the phone last night that he didn't pass a math class 3 times. He kept asking me questions, and then before I had a chance to explain my response, cut in. He just seemed somewhat ignorant, and I feel that we're really opposite. I just feel that I need someone more mature, and don't want to waste his or my time just going out with him for the sake of it, but I don't want my co-worker to be upset with me either, because she's so excited. Should I cancel the date, or go anyways and say "thanks but no thanks" later? HELP!

2006-10-03 07:07:21 · 18 answers · asked by GLSigma3 6 in Singles & Dating

What, if anything, did you do to mark the occasion of your divorce being final? For instance, take a trip, go out with friends, get a tatto, etc.

Also, how soon is too soon to start dating after the divorce is final?

2006-10-03 07:06:50 · 11 answers · asked by babyred 2 in Marriage & Divorce

"Jane" e-mails "John" from an e-mail address that "John" does not reconize. "Jane" has a crush on "John" but does not want her identy to be found out...yet! "IF" "John" was to ask "Jane's" real name, she would by all means reveil her name. "Jane" wants to take this approach for fear of rejection.

2006-10-03 07:06:35 · 22 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Singles & Dating

My guy says he is ok with my having male friends, he is quite jealous though, and sometimes i feel that if i were to call my guy friends or hang out he would accuse me of cheating, i never have and never would. Is it wrong to have guy's as friends? i have alot of female friends to. My guy doesn't have any of his own friends though male or female..think this has something to do with his jealousy and all. Is it right for me to be able to have male friends if my guy says its ok but has gotten jealous in the past?

2006-10-03 07:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by WonderWhy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 07:06:05 · 8 answers · asked by GCRhino 1 in Singles & Dating

When u are newly married, n on first night u want to drive him/her into love making,(when u hav not made love earlier ).
How will u do it?
Plz mention procedure(for giving feel to everyone), plz

2006-10-03 07:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by rightanswers 2 in Weddings

If anyone ask you for midnight hug..what will be your treatment ?

2006-10-03 07:05:34 · 5 answers · asked by MIgnight HUG 1 in Singles & Dating

We were great together, we understood each other and it was real love...people will keep us apart phisicly but you will always be in my heart....

2006-10-03 07:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by nhng06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated my bestfriend (of 7 years) despite all my best judgement. He said he didn't want to date anymore, and then he got back together with his ex the next day (and f#cked her as well). We dated for about a year. I have been psycho this past week, crying constantly, and i am depressed, very badly. And he has been so distant, as if he is a completely different person. I told him I can;t be friends with him anymore, it hurts too much, plus he just doesn't act like cares at all. what should I do? I miss my bestfriend....... help! he also had the nerve of accusing me a bad friend, because im not happy for him??? we just broke up 7 days ago!!! opinions? advice? help!

2006-10-03 07:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by beautifuldisasterforurenjoyment 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi been maried 22 yrs a born again Christian never been with another women since we have been married. She is a controlling person and very jealous cannot watch TV (even a commercial). Even going throught a Tim Hortons drive thru I get accused. She as always been like it in the last couple years there where times she go weeks without letting me in the bed with her. In that time I got into watching porn a bad mistake as an husband and a born again Christian. Right now I am living in hell, she caught me like 8 months ago and still brings it up about the porn. I want and need to leave but I am so mixed with so many emotions about doing the right thing. Someone please comment on this for me. I have 3 Kids ages 16 18 21 so they know what is going on and understands if I want to leave even her own friends tells me that I should leave. Do I need a bomb Please help

2006-10-03 07:04:17 · 17 answers · asked by alpha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 07:04:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dated my bestfriend (of 7 years) despite all my best judgement. He said he didn't want to date anymore, and then he got back together with his ex the next day (and f#cked her as well). We dated for about a year. I have been psycho this past week, crying constantly, and i am depressed, very badly. And he has been so distant, as if he is a completely different person. I told him I can;t be friends with him anymore, it hurts too much, plus he just doesn't act like cares at all. what should I do? I miss my bestfriend....... help! he also had the nerve of accusing me a bad friend, because im not happy for him??? we just broke up 7 days ago!!! opinions? advice? help!

2006-10-03 07:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by beautifuldisasterforurenjoyment 1 in Singles & Dating

This is long...but stay with me...I need advice!

My fiancee received a letter financial info for child support...The daughter lives with mom, he sees her 50% of the time. He provides half of whatever she needs (clothing,school stuff, etc.)

He gives mom $200 cash every month. (BAD idea...no proof) The mom just bought a housew/ her unemployed boyfriend. So now she wants support to help her make her house payments!!! She is also trying to backtrack for un-paid monies!

My fiancee makes little and supports his mother too.after bills, he only has 3-400 left a month and 200 goes to his daughter. If her request goes through..he will pay more...how will we survive!?!? If we get married because i'm afraid the mom will exploit us...(joint income..)

This makes me sick. Think about the mom's who are struggling unable to get support. This mom clubs daily & leaves the girl w/ grandma..ha! Grams should claim support! But what do we do??! we're in CA and mothers are always right here.....

2006-10-03 07:03:56 · 5 answers · asked by tc46 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can not stand this!!! I feel like all i do is go to work and come home and then the house is empty when I get here. I call my husband at work and he can't talk cause he is always in a meeting.I work second shift and he leaves at 330am to go to work. I feel like I am always alone...ok~I am always alone and no one to talk to but this damn computer. And it doesn't talk back. This sucks..BIG TIME. What can I do???

2006-10-03 07:03:22 · 15 answers · asked by Me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you thought that your girlfriend would never find out would you cheat? And why?

2006-10-03 07:03:00 · 9 answers · asked by crazy_in_lov 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 07:02:53 · 24 answers · asked by cooler 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I had an argument about the stupidist thing, he left the juice out on the counter. Keep in mind, he's always leaving juice out, plates on the table, socks on the floor, etc. I'm basically his maid and now I'm fed up. When I made that comment that he'd left the juice out on the counter, he ignored me. When I said did you hear me?, he said in a very sarcastic tone, yeah I heard you and kept watching tv. I was told to be the bigger person but I can't. I treat him like a King & he treats me like a servant. What should I do?

2006-10-03 07:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by Tonya L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i haven't been with this guy long but it seems whenever we start getting friskee all he wants to do is suck on my breasts! i mean ya i like it but for hours at a time! geesh!

2006-10-03 07:01:57 · 27 answers · asked by SUMMER 2 in Singles & Dating

I've just been promoted and i have the best boyfriend in the world. I've got a decent punch of friends and as far as families go, i've done alright. But why do i still feel as though something is missing.

2006-10-03 07:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We work to gether and he and i were really close for a few weeks and then oneday(the same day a new girl started) he kind of just stopped being all nice and and stuff...have i lost my chance with him?

2006-10-03 07:01:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 07:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by nicky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 06:58:19 · 21 answers · asked by LORRAINE G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it young girls (late teens to early 20's) refer to women in there 30 and 40's old and gross? I am 33 and look 100% better then I did when I was in that younger age group. I get carded all the time, more men flirt with me even my sons friends think Im his older sister? How are we old, I think women no a days in there 30's and 40's are just plain beautiful and very sexy. Plus I guarentee we also know how to take care of our men alot better then the younger ones do. My man is 3 years younger and tells me I blow his mind way better then anyone hes been with. So why are we gross?

2006-10-03 06:57:58 · 13 answers · asked by landscaperschick73 3 in Family

i live in england, my girlfriend lives in scotland, we are both seperated . she has been seperated for 4 years and has a daughter. is it different for her to get divorced and is she able to bring her daughter to england [which is 400 miles away] if her ex-husband disagrees with that?

2006-10-03 06:57:39 · 3 answers · asked by jackdeescousin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,lets say that you are married but your hubby doesn't treat you good. He has in the past cheated, physical & verbal abuse, porn, & not being a good father. Ok, those are the things he has done in the past. But here lately, I have started having feelings for someone else but nothing has happened between us. (just hugs and innocent flirting) I don't know what to do. I love this guys children & want to be a part of his life so bad. It is not a sexual thing. I mean, I do have sexual feelings for him though. But, we have been controlling it. We talk on the phone everyday & see each other in public at least 3 times a week. I am just at a loss for what to do. He has 3 kids & is divorced & I have 2. On top of things, my hubby says he wants to work things out but in my heart..they have gone too far to be fixed. I am ready to start new & to have someone that loves me & will take care of me correct. ????

2006-10-03 06:57:31 · 12 answers · asked by T&E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

once and for all i wil like to know the truth do men really think about sex all the time?Wether you are married or single? Does it change when you do get married?And women does your husband think about sex all the time? Also did it change if you are married?It's nothing personal but i keep on hearing that men only think with their penis when it comes to a relationship and i just wnat to know once it for all if it's true!!

2006-10-03 06:57:23 · 41 answers · asked by *Loving my two boys* 3 in Singles & Dating