"Jane" e-mails "John" from an e-mail address that "John" does not reconize. "Jane" has a crush on "John" but does not want her identy to be found out...yet! "IF" "John" was to ask "Jane's" real name, she would by all means reveil her name. "Jane" wants to take this approach for fear of rejection.
2006-10-03 07:06:35 · 22 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that is stalking by any measure. It is just being shy. Sometimes you need to realize that it is easier and a lot less stress to just tell someone that you like them. Fear of rejection just comes from never being rejected...if you have been shot down a couple of times you find out that it doesn't hurt so bad. People are all different and just because we are attracted to someone doesn't mean tha they are going to like us. Just know that because someone says no doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you, let it slide. On the other hand, if you think they might like you, you could be right and being up front will save you a lot of time and stress. Good luck Jane. Don't let yourself get hurt to easily, this isn't the last time you are going to feel this way.
2006-10-03 07:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan-CMU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Jane" needs to grow some "balls" or get off of "John's" "balls" because that is immature. Tell him, if you are rejected what's the worst thing that happens? You know how many other guys are out there? He isn't the only one. Best thing... he likes you back and you don't seem like a stalker.
2006-10-03 07:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by ZsMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is stalker-ish, u just fear rejection ( i do also), but the way u r handling it is kinda childish. You need to find a better approach.
2006-10-03 07:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's stupid.
It's kind of like, moronic.
It's queer.
If John wants to eat Jane's box, he should just say so!
2006-10-03 07:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by DO IT...YOURSELF! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 11 years old and in school cant you just get your friend to ask his friend whether he likes you. Of course, if you are 33 years old then its kinda scary.
2006-10-03 07:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my thing is this , you must not be very confident about yourself and thats not good if you like someone tell them if they dont like you that way then hey you move on. you dont dwell on things like that. Rejection is hard yes. But not being confident about yourself is worse good luck .
2006-10-03 07:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by WeFlyHigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errmm...yes....but it's fairly on mild side..as Jane's willing to reveal herself...or will she if the time comes..and it's not a favourable thing to do in her opinion...at the time she is asked...will she just pretend ..play more games..hmmm...
2006-10-03 07:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by docKnowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watever, but this sounds like 4am friday night to me, this chick texts me and was like yo... and im like who is this, she continues to ignore the ID question and talks to me like she knows me, and identifies herself as a girl i met at a bar, well at this point Im interested basically cause im smashed and by myself... anyways I persist with the ID question and she says nevermind good night, wtf, answer my question and I'll let you know being secretive is just FUCJJKKKin annoying, get some confidence.. its sexy with a girl with confidence
in my opinion that right there would be a stalker, not ish straight up nutz
2006-10-03 07:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just how does this approach save you from rejection?
2006-10-03 07:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋