Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

My bf and I been dating for 6 months now and things are good. We fought every weekend when we got started but things are getting better. The other days, he told me he loves me but I don't feel the same way. I still think of my ex bf often and in my mind, letting my ex go was a big mistake. I still love my ex and will always will, but I'm with my new bf and I can't seem to fall in love with him. He's great, sweet, kind, caring and more and we've talked about getting married but the back of my head, i'm still wishing i'm still with my ex. Reason why i'm not with my ex is because he went to work in China and wont be seeing him for the next couple of years and I couldnt handle that...

Now i'm wondering if I could ever fall in love with my current bf, and it's wrong of me to stay with him even though I dont love him...yet.....

2006-10-03 06:56:58 · 15 answers · asked by tomgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

been with someone who has gone for training to go army and married and has lived with them and how does it all work all i know is that you have to marry to live with them plus do i have to work out there will there be any jobs i plan to have children with this guy would just like to about it all thanks

2006-10-03 06:56:01 · 3 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She won't stop saying she "loves" me. And my other girlfriends are starting to get annoyed, since I can't see them as much anymore because the sign other damn takes up all my free time!

Please help!

2006-10-03 06:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?

2006-10-03 06:55:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 06:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to state in advance that this is NOT a reflection of my own situation so please dont give me advise as i am fine...i answered another question yesterday with the quote 'it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all ' and i wondered how many had loved and lost and regretted it...

2006-10-03 06:54:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he was my collage fried and prop to me 8 months ago .and now he is some one eles ,i want to forget him.

2006-10-03 06:54:30 · 18 answers · asked by SWEETY J 1 in Singles & Dating

is it a good idea to get engaged at 22? cause he is talking about having a child and getting married should that convince me that it is time to take the step when offered, although am not where am supposed to be in terms of finance

2006-10-03 06:53:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really want to leave my husband, and deep down he knows there is no love left in our marriage, problem is he is not only very controlling he is a very angry man, even if he agreed I know for a fact he would hound me for ever, and I'm really afraid of what he could do.

2006-10-03 06:53:32 · 27 answers · asked by T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked numerous questions about a guy who, like I said, gave me the impression that he really liked me, we used to txt each other a lot (he used to text me stuff like he's thinking of me all the time etc...) The Saturday before last, we were supposed to meet up but I really had to cancel, I apologised but he's gone all funny, rubbing things in my face and then started completely ignoring me. I got really really upset over it. Yesterday, one of his colleagues (nice guy who I get on well with) asked me out for a drink after work - so I went - no more, no less, just a drink. Well since then the first guy has been sending me txts and e-mails. He's still on my mind but part of me says no because he's been horrible. Shall I ignore him? Txt him back? What's your advice?
Thanks

2006-10-03 06:52:55 · 14 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating

Have had a fiance and a husband. The fiance was a great guy, we just grew apart. The husband was a jerk, abusive, unfaithful, mean, stuck me with a huge amount of debt. Never really dated anyone else. I'm really lonely and would like to start dating. How do I know if I'm ready?

2006-10-03 06:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 06:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by biggggies 1 in Friends

that you look like someone famous and if so who???

I was told i look like Phil Mitchell out of Eastenders only fatter..

Shattered my hopes of the Brat Pitt lookalike contest..

2006-10-03 06:52:11 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been dating for about 4 years, and my mom has decidied she doesnt like him! Can she have him put in jail if we continue to date?

2006-10-03 06:52:04 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has friend that he sometimes hangs out with. I beat the crap out of her about a yr ago cause i thought that they were seing each other at one time but they atomately proclaimed that they were just friends, since then he vowed not to talk to her for our sake, and then I found out that they hang out sometimes, and have been for about a month after i whooped her !@#. I didn't know anything about it until I caught him in a lie about who he had called. He still states that they have only been friends, and that the only reason why he hasn't said anything is cause she is scared of me now. We have a 3 yr old daughter together, I feel that if she is a friend she should be a friend to me as well. Can I get someones opinion. Am I over reacting ?

2006-10-03 06:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by Sandra G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

name some things that really made you fall for your girlfriend/fiance/wife !

2006-10-03 06:51:29 · 22 answers · asked by ooh baby 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in July of 2007. I have my bridesmaids wearing navy but am totally stumped on what color flowers to have. Initially I was going to go with yellow and white flowers calla lilies and roses. I keep looking at it and feel like I need to go with more color or just stick to white flowers. I just am not sure I like the yellow as the stand out color by itself. any suggestions?

2006-10-03 06:51:22 · 36 answers · asked by lilcutegirl1128 1 in Weddings

2006-10-03 06:50:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i put my name in the top left corner but what else do i put and in what order.

Also do i write his address in the middle.

When your sending a letter to someone who is working in iraq not serving but working do you have to put any extra postage?

Thanks. I don't ever send mail. Only email.

2006-10-03 06:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been using toys on myself for 10 years now. I don't think of myself as gay, but my last girlfriend found my toys and told me i must be gay to do that. can some one help me...

2006-10-03 06:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by rick k 1 in Family

They say that there are 7 million more women than men in America and 4 million more women than men in UK. Is it true.
They say that it is going to get worse.
Already the Muslims say that when the world ends there will be 50 times more women than men. And that till then the number of women compared to men will increase. The Quran says that near the end of the world, one man will be chased by around forty women and they will all try to get him.

If that is true what will happen?

How can all the women get husbands or boyfriends?

Will one man be chased by a group of women?

Do you think there are more women than men because I think I find more women than men. What do you think?

2006-10-03 06:49:16 · 15 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family

2006-10-03 06:49:15 · 26 answers · asked by khalifa 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anybody have any new ideas for wedding party gifts? Everywhere sells the same boring things.

2006-10-03 06:48:09 · 20 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Weddings

JUst Tell What u THink Girls?

2006-10-03 06:47:56 · 20 answers · asked by bedroom_desires 1 in Singles & Dating

If you've got a 17 year old, technically since they're not 18 they're a child. So, if they needed discipline, is it okay to spank them as you would spank a child?

2006-10-03 06:47:48 · 17 answers · asked by Doctor Phil 1 in Family

we are about to make a year and i feel so much distant from her i dont know what to do anymore what should i do to make my relationship work ( i need help ) big time i want to stay with this girl but sometimes i feel so far away from her please i need all the anwser's i can get thanks

2006-10-03 06:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by thevillageprophet 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for my dad's side of my family. Linda is my Aunt. They used to live in Dearborn, Michigan. Anybody? I know it's a long shot...

2006-10-03 06:47:40 · 1 answers · asked by toobusy 3 in Family

I've posted once(Read my other post for more details) I got some good answers but i would like more. I want to get her feeling like she is my Number 1 again. Because i've had her crying and depressed for the past 3 weeks.
And she is saying how she is forgetting all those Special momments we shared. And the many times I got her outta slumps. And belive me the things i helped her with are beyond just a friendly favor. I almost went to jail just to save her from a abusive family member.

She has agreed to give me another chance.. But she is still being kinda Hesitant to just forgive me completley. I asked her to Just leave me because she could do better... I mean she is So Beautiful and Sweet... Any guy would kill to have her. And i can't belive i treated her like ****.
She said she can't leave me because she loves me. And will never love again after me.

I know it is gonna take time, But what can i do to show IM REALLY SINCERELY SORRY.

2006-10-03 06:47:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this male friend. He's been dating one of my girlfriend's. She dumped him the other day. Not really sure of the reason. The poor guy is destroyed. He won't belive it's over. He cries and begs. The guy is in so much pain. He has grown children who don't know how to handle this. What do we do to help him through this?

2006-10-03 06:47:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-03 06:47:01 · 17 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Singles & Dating