I've posted once(Read my other post for more details) I got some good answers but i would like more. I want to get her feeling like she is my Number 1 again. Because i've had her crying and depressed for the past 3 weeks.
And she is saying how she is forgetting all those Special momments we shared. And the many times I got her outta slumps. And belive me the things i helped her with are beyond just a friendly favor. I almost went to jail just to save her from a abusive family member.
She has agreed to give me another chance.. But she is still being kinda Hesitant to just forgive me completley. I asked her to Just leave me because she could do better... I mean she is So Beautiful and Sweet... Any guy would kill to have her. And i can't belive i treated her like ****.
She said she can't leave me because she loves me. And will never love again after me.
I know it is gonna take time, But what can i do to show IM REALLY SINCERELY SORRY.
2006-10-03 06:47:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thx Shining light.
2006-10-03 06:58:03 · update #1
Ok Firs of all why were u being an @ss?. Something must have happened. I can understand her and your point of view. And now that all that is over u need to change. It was nice that u knottiest what u were doing and decides to improve ur self. When u love someone u will go though what ever comes in ur way. Now this is what ur girl did and it tells u that she honestly loves u. You need to appreciate what u have in ur hands and don't wait until u loose it. U need to regain her trust by showing her that u do care and by being The boyfriend that she once knew. When u love some one u don't hurt them, u don't make them suffer, u don't make them cry. All the pain that i caused leaves a mark and that mark takes the place of good memories. This i hard for both of u and now more than ever u need to let ur love show. For u don't know how long this will last. U need to live life day by day. Hold on to all those good times that u spend together and always put ur partner before u. I hope this helps, I dontk know if this is what u wanted to hear, but i do know that this is something that might help. Being in a relationship is hard, and maybe harder at a young age. You need to respect ur partner in every way. Once u loose that respecet and start calling her/him names or talking to them in an ofencive maner, the hole relationship starts to fall appart. U need bouth parts in orther for it to grow. please keep in mind that no matter how angry or mad or fustrated u are, u need to stop and think of what comes out of ur mouth. For the spocken words are the ones that cause the most pain.
2006-10-03 07:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just something she'll come to realize with time. You aren't here to prove anything to anyone, so just be yourself. She'll see the positive changes you start making and you two can fall in love all over again! It's really hard once you've been sh!t on by someone to trust them again, but you can, and she will. Patience is more important now than ever. Learn to work with her, she's not against you, nor are you her. Love is patient and love is kind. Love one another with all you've got until you can't love anymore. You CAN and WILL make this thing work with her.
2006-10-03 06:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing i've learned is that people usually can't change regardless of how hard they try. They may be able to change for a while but eventually........
2006-10-03 06:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by teenuhrocks 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude get it in your head she doesnt want you to change but to be yourself dumb ***, she seeing someone else when she looks at you, no, she wants to see you when she looking at you..
2006-10-03 07:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to show her that.
2006-10-03 06:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋