my relationship is going down the hill?

Question

we are about to make a year and i feel so much distant from her i dont know what to do anymore what should i do to make my relationship work ( i need help ) big time i want to stay with this girl but sometimes i feel so far away from her please i need all the anwser's i can get thanks

Answer 1

Sorry, but people change...they grow...sometimes, they grow closer together, sometimes, further apart...but they always grow...and if you find that you are growing apart, than trying to hold it together can only end in disaster.

You each have to be yourselves, even if you have to be yourselves in a different relationship. I know that you may not want to hear this, but doing anything else will involve one or both of you being someone that they do not wish to be, and resenting the other for that imposition.

Better to part as mutual friends, than as a possesser, and an escapee. As friends, you may grow together again later...as an escapee, you never will.

Answer 2

Im in the same exact situation... Only i deserve my girlfriend becoming distant. Talk to her and find out why things are changing.

Answer 3

Have you tried talking to her? Try and find out some things that the two of you can do together. Spend time going out with her, to dinner, movies ya know date stuff.

Answer 4

For starters you need to figure out why it is going downhill and then ask for help to make it right. You have no details for anyone to actually give you advice.

Answer 5

i really don't know what to tell you i am in the same situation i try to let things happen on their own but it gets worse and i also try to make it better myself but it works less than the other one and i let him do what ever he wants but he won't he is just waiting for me to do something but i don't know what i guess i'm just going to break up with him but i love him so much!!!!!!!

Answer 6

talk with her and find out why she's so distant .