Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

My girlfriend of around 3 years never stops moaning about her job, her life, her weight, just about anything she can think of. I take her on amazing trips, out for dinner, i try my best to cheer her up and lift her mood, to listen, reassure and support, but sometimes it seems never ending. It used to be 1 or 2 weeks of her being depressed, following by a few weeks of her being up and fun and interested in me and us, rather than just herself. But whilst i love her i really don't know if i can do it anymore. Particularly as she never has the energy to do anything apart from get drunk and chain smoke every night, and then complains about how fat and unhealthy she feels. Is there anything i could do to try and help her out of it? I've tried everything and am worried that at the end of the day you can only make yourself happy, not someone else. She's certainly not making me or herself happy....

2006-10-03 23:31:37 · 28 answers · asked by cameron s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-10-03 23:27:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

His school work has somehow dropped drasticly and his very disobedient toward my eldest sister and my mother me included

His also starting to steal money. We confronted him about it and he bursted out with tears. He asked us to put him into another school but I'm so scared that it will happen again.

The teachers seem to be doing nothing about it.
I'm 21 and I feel like beating up that bullies for hurting my baby bro - i know that i am not suppose to do it but i just feel so useless.

My mom also doesnt know what to do anymore

help

2006-10-03 23:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-03 23:23:35 · 22 answers · asked by RODNEY F 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what other other types of kiss u kno... [explain]

2006-10-03 23:23:19 · 5 answers · asked by scarlet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 23:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by wibberley1231 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 23:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by scarlet 1 in Singles & Dating

He's originally from Manchester now living in Sydney - age mid forties

2006-10-03 23:19:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have this suitor who’s insisting his love for me. I refused him because I am already committed to someone. But he cannot accept the truth that I’m in love with my boyf. One day my boyf and I got a room in an Inn and you know what happened next. On the other day I saw this creature (my suitor) and he’s staring differently at me. I don’t know why he’s looking at me like that. He confronted me and asks me why I did that. He shouted and everyone around us looks at me. He told everybody what I did, he called me $lut and I am very humiliated that time. I never told this to my boyf because I know he could kill this guy. I cannot tell this to my friend because I just want to be discreet when it comes to my sexual life. Can you help me with this situation please? I can’t get away with this guy because he’s my officemate.

2006-10-03 23:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by sweetlove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

they are married form 25 years
what could I do

2006-10-03 23:15:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I called this guy with whom I have been having sexual relationship. Didn't answer, so I left a message about how I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable, just want to let him know how I feel - strong feelings - that nothing I have done is by any means his fault. I am an adult and accept responsibility for my actions, not regret it...good stuff about him, but I don't think he feels the same way at all and that I have to stop fantasizing that there would be a relationship. Didn't call back and when I see him, he won't even speak to me. I didn't say anything bad about him, but said a lot of good, especially with how he made me feel and what a good person I think he is... Wrong, or wrong way??? Your thoughts are appreciated.

2006-10-03 23:14:29 · 9 answers · asked by bones 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a jealous person, so how come Im having such great sex imagining w/my husband that hes going at it w/ "HER," and demands he yell out her name and he is reluctant but we really get down & dirty !!!!!!!

2006-10-03 23:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by luisa_duran2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but he is sorry today, and since that i dont feel to write.

Wrting was the only way for me to express

2006-10-03 23:10:48 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family

any one from newark on here?

2006-10-03 23:10:47 · 25 answers · asked by >darkangel< 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for four years. But I loved a guy before him, named Jake. I have known him for six years. I think I am marrying my boyfriend soon, so I feel like I need to see Jake before I'm tied down for good. I miss him and feel deep within myself that I need to see him in person just one more time. However, I couldn't let my boyfriend know. Should I fly to see Jake? We are just friends, at this point, but I will always have a place in my heart for that rat bastard.

2006-10-03 23:05:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 22:58:11 · 30 answers · asked by hog4ubaby 2 in Family

I am spiritual interested selfrealisation motive. I am always feeling about young female teens . There is no girlfriend to me for crossing the level in the journey of life and reach my destination -the fulfilment of my birth.several years I have touch with some temples and Ashrams but my inner brightness is not lightened always.From my childhood I am not having the sweetness of Mother & Sister relationship because I lost my mother in my early days and my stepmother was not interested about me. Now am married -with blessings of the nature a good Life partner is along with me .I have told my all history to her.she is not educated to find answers about my mental illness.

2006-10-03 22:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by ackshithrayam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wouldnt act on it. Ive been in a relationship for 4 years. I fantasize about people I was with in the past, and celebrities... it happens every night and sometimes in the day

2006-10-03 22:54:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when we started off , I denied saying my parenst wont accept our relationship and hence we shud not think abt this relationship but after his convincing I agreed but now after a year he wants to leave me wanting his parents. I dont understand when once I had this question raised he said all will be fine then why today he is against. He toltaly said no for this relationship now.
What shal be done? I feel mad as I have lost both my respect from my family and my love, where do i go and what do i do??

2006-10-03 22:53:14 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

i likes a good old fiddle as much as the next person,but im seeming to build up a collection now ive split wimme fella? is there a normal amount to be collecting?

2006-10-03 22:52:28 · 20 answers · asked by spadgeroo2012 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 22:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by clair r 2 in Weddings

Guys wish to have a good sex with girls. But girls do not prefer till they are their bests...

2006-10-03 22:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by aniliveon 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom just called and told me that romance cover and hunk professional Fabio stopped her, asked if she wants dinner and exchanged numbers. Would it be considered rude if I were to try and sleep with him? thanks

2006-10-03 22:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got together with my girlfriend about six months ago and it's been great ever since. i told her, i was honest with her, that i smoke on occasion. not cigarettes. she didn't like it, but she kinda accepted it. it was all good until last night when we went to visit with my cousin who smokes on the regular. see i like to hang with my cousin, but i don't smoke like he does. i smoke maybe once every two or three months. but since we were over there, she's gotten really suspicious. i told her that so she could be sure, i would throw all my paraphenalia out, and i did, but she doesn't believe me. she doesn't live with me, and she doesn't know where i keep stuff, so she doesn't know any better. see she dated this alcoholic for years before me, and she gave him chance after chance to get his sh#t together, but he never did. so how do i get her to give me ONE chance to prove i'm done with this stuff for good? somebody help. i love her.

2006-10-03 22:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Singles & Dating

All of my mums sisters died of diabetes. I'm picking up all the signs that she might have it as well. She's loosing allot of weight and she refuses to go to the GP to get checked out.

I think she might be scared of the outcome.What should i do to try and convince her to get checked out. I'm also very scared of loosing my mom she is my everything.

2006-10-03 22:44:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-03 22:42:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im about 7 lbs over weight i know its not alot, i go to the gym too. thing is i have moments of binge eating where i just cant stop i do try but something just takes over. after about 4 days i stop and go back to normal eating for about a week then binge eating starts again when ive lost about 4lbs. please help i always feel bad about it after ive done it. any tips to help me, thx

2006-10-03 22:42:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have three best friends, one I have known since the 5th grade and we have not seen eachother in a couple of years, but we keep in touch with emails weekly, one I have been friends with for about 5 years, and one I have only known for about a year. I realy want one of them to be my maid of honor, the one I have known about a year, but do you think that the others feelings would be hurt if I did not choose them? How would you feel if somone got chosen over you??

2006-10-03 22:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by Megan G 3 in Weddings

2006-10-03 22:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by clair r 2 in Weddings

2006-10-03 22:41:48 · 13 answers · asked by Oops 1 in Friends