I've been with my boyfriend for four years. But I loved a guy before him, named Jake. I have known him for six years. I think I am marrying my boyfriend soon, so I feel like I need to see Jake before I'm tied down for good. I miss him and feel deep within myself that I need to see him in person just one more time. However, I couldn't let my boyfriend know. Should I fly to see Jake? We are just friends, at this point, but I will always have a place in my heart for that rat bastard.
2006-10-03 23:05:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope this is not the same guy you are fantasizing about when having sex with your present boyfriend. If it is then I would suggest that you do not fly to see him and if you do fly out to see him break it off with your bf first. Would you want him to fly cross country to see his ex because she holds a special place in his heart? I think your answer is no and I don't think that you are ready for marriage.
2006-10-03 23:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur type of story is very common in this world. I am even thinking that is it movie or real? anyway if it is real then... . U should forget Jake coz he was ur past. A human should always forget his past and live with his present. OF course u should not tell ur new boy friend about Jake coz it might break ur this new relationship.U should continue ur life with ur new boy friends and marry with him. Some secrets shold never be told coz it can create panic thorughout ur own life and even ur loved ones life.So Remember Live ur Life Happily and Don't take Tension Yaar.
2006-10-04 00:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl.. Im not even sure why you want to think about your bf if you clearly still have feelings for Jake. You might regret it for the rest of your life if you dont at least go see what the deal is with jake. Maybe see if jake is willing to come to you first to test the waters. if he is intrested, he'll come
2006-10-03 23:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, fly. You sound too young to be getting tied down any way... go, there's something in you that's telling you to go find out what you need to. You'll be sorry if you don't. Good Luck.
2006-10-03 23:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ofcourse! u wouldn't find a friend like him ever.if u really like and trust him.just go for it girl!!don't care about ur present b.f. just make a good old excuse!and hey do keep in touch with him as friend
2006-10-03 23:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go and see Jake, for closure's sake. if not,you will forever wonder about him. Go and see him once and for all and then get him out of your mind forever!
2006-10-03 23:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be catty to see the rat bastard .do not fly . stick to your present boyfriend
2006-10-03 23:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you feel as though you need to close that chapter in your life before marriage then go for it.
2006-10-04 04:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My arms would get too tired to fly that far.....
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says the birdman
2006-10-03 23:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by ken n 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋