I wouldnt act on it. Ive been in a relationship for 4 years. I fantasize about people I was with in the past, and celebrities... it happens every night and sometimes in the day
2006-10-03 22:54:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, just remember the difference between fact and fantasy
2006-10-03 22:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, so yes, it's ok. As far as the past and fantasizing about what you used to have, a lot of that is you just missing that and never got the proper closure, making you want it back. To day dream about celebrities and have fantisies about them, is normal. As long as you're not acting upon them with your partner or trying to turn your partner into your fantasy man, you are ok. If you are really asking if it's okay to fantasize about other men while in a relationship with someone because you don't think it's right or something is wrong, maybe there is something wrong. You could be seeing a problem in your relationship were you are not happy with your partner and want more from him. Keep in mind though, he will never be, Ben Afflec, Paul Walker, Vin Diesel, Josh Lucas, or whoever else is on this list of hot men we woman lust over.
2006-10-03 23:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by dns_hth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to fantasize about the other men in your past and even fantasize about celebrities, It's a healthy way to think about what might of been but to you need to be able to tell the difference from fantasy and real life
2006-10-03 23:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of direction that's no longer ok! Is he insane? To lamely say that 'its nature' and take no account of your thoughts on the concern is the very lowest element he might want to do. I strongly merchandise to the singles internet web content as that's in elementary words a pre-cursor to an affair too. The porn is objectionable even even with the actuality that some couples detect it ok. I in my opinion sense that if a guy or female seems at it a procedures too much, it reflects on their attitude in the direction of sex and humanity extra regularly than no longer. He has de-customized it to the point in which he receives his kicks from searching nameless members flapping about on the teach! healthful adult males and women individuals see porn as a stupid little bit of nonsense for unhappy teens who've a good wrist. maximum individuals might want to otherwise be doing it than searching others doing it! I could say that your husband demands to take a properly seem at what's occurring - this guy evidently has complications and that i difficulty you're the in elementary words who's going to be emotionally battered ultimately. Take inventory. This guy does now no longer recognize you or another female - you and those porn stars are in simple terms products. What you do with all of this relies upon upon no matter if he's a properly husband in each and every diverse recognize. good luck.
2016-12-04 05:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said you have been in relationship for 4 years???? but I would say that it has more harm than use. Actually it is always difficult to find some one of your dreams so try to find a partner who has some qualities of your needs.
2006-10-03 23:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not healthy no and it could cause a problem but we all do it. Keep it under wraps, try to appreciate the attractive qualities of your partner.
2006-10-03 23:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married two years and I fantisy about other men and it actually makes it more interesting, I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Join my yahoo group about relationships at
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/pinkie/
Gracie
2006-10-03 23:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gracie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with fantasizing. As long as you dont make it into a reality!
2006-10-03 23:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it's healthy also just don't tell your boyfriend or husband, after all he may be doing the same thing about his ex's and would you want to know?
2006-10-03 23:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it i, a suggestion play a game where you and you partner role play . pick a person you want him to be and he does the revese , and go for it
2006-10-03 22:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋