His school work has somehow dropped drasticly and his very disobedient toward my eldest sister and my mother me included
His also starting to steal money. We confronted him about it and he bursted out with tears. He asked us to put him into another school but I'm so scared that it will happen again.
The teachers seem to be doing nothing about it.
I'm 21 and I feel like beating up that bullies for hurting my baby bro - i know that i am not suppose to do it but i just feel so useless.
My mom also doesnt know what to do anymore
help
2006-10-03 23:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get him enrolled in self defence/martial arts classes. My younger cousin is just 13 and he is already a Judo Red Belt. He can kick @ss of Bullies twice his age and size.
2006-10-03 23:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he needs to either make friends with them, or find other friends to back him up. If all else fells take him to Karate or something in that line. New school means same trouble with the same kind of people. Unless he changes hes whole way of life. He will have to have a whole different personality at the new school. That way they don't zero in on him. Are the family and him willing to go that far. That means different clothes, hairdo, and attitude.
2006-10-03 23:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Texas T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. That is so sad. I think that you should confront his teacher about it. If she doesn't do anything, confront the principal. You can also include that his teacher isn't doing anything about it, if you feel like getting her/him back (LOL). If even the principal cannot to anything about it, then I think you should put him in another school. This will affect his future.
Also, try to have little talks with your brother. Tell him about your plans to help protect him from the bullies (this will comfort him), and that he should not be afraid.
if you are a Christian or a free-tinker (dunno how to spell that), then I think you should also pray to God.
Good luck, sweetie.
2006-10-03 23:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by LAVELLE! :] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times the schools will have counselors handy for these particular questions you are asking. Have your mom set up an appointment they should be glad to help and know the family cares enough to be concerned. I hope I helped you and you can get to the bottom of this.
2006-10-03 23:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hollygood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your mum should go down to the school and speak to the teachers or headmaster/mistress try everything you can its a horrible thing being bullied he dont know where to turn. dont pressure him into telling u how he is being bullied, when u r with him ask a question like is anyone nasty to u in school?, only one he may answer you but after that dont ask anymore, ask another question the next day or later on in the day. and definatly go to the school about it. i depise teachers that know whats going on but dont do anything! good luck :o) xXx
2006-10-03 23:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first go to the counselors office at the school, if that does not work then enroll him in judo class. and get a lawyer, if it gets worst, to sue the school and the parents of the bully, it's the schools job to make shore that the students are safe
2006-10-03 23:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do nothing to change what happens at school kids are not nice you change him to another school but it may happen at the next school
the money issue he is a young boy i agree stealing is not a good thing but maybe he wants things your mum wont buy for him
being mean to your sister and mum remember how you were at that age pubity
2006-10-03 23:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by katie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with some others that you and your mom should see the school counselors. If that doesn't help it might help to contact someone from the board of education who could assist you with this problem. I read this site and you might be interested in reading it. Good luck to you all. http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/emotion/bullies.html
2006-10-04 02:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go down there and have a little chat with the bullie and his parents. It needs to stop now and it can.
2006-10-04 03:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go and confront them yourself that dont mean fight them but then you go tell them what the deal is then if they keep messing with your brother tell you brother go let them kno whats good and beat the mess out of them (hope he know how to fight).
2006-10-03 23:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋