2006-10-03 23:23:35 · 22 answers · asked by RODNEY F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-03 23:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by phattygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already committed to someone, you should always be open and honest to your partner just as you would like him/her to be honest with you too. No matter how hurting the truth will be, one should tell his/her partner about it especially on matters that would be detrimental to the relationship.
Relatively, going to places with the opposite sex without telling your partner is a "no-no" to a committed relationship. Even if your partner trust you much, it is still best to inform him/her of your activities and whereabouts especially when you're with the opposite sex.
2006-10-04 06:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by cehLina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to that....
and also how big of a deal also depends on where you are going...
if you are both going shopping for a present for a mutual co-worker's birthday, then it is bad but not that bad yet.
If you are both going hanging out and eating, nothing romantic though, then it is still bad but not that bad yet.
If you are both going on a cruise or going to a motel, then expect the worst.
What happen to common sense?
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example,
I had a coworker who always flirt with me. She is very pretty and nice but I guess there is definitely a mutual atttraction there. Anyway, I was already in a commit relationship and I told my gf about my coworker. My gf would tease me about how if I was single, the co-worker is so my type. We were cool. And my coworker knew I have a gf but I think she enjoy the flirting. We were good friends though because we never cross the line.
2006-10-04 06:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being secretive may cost a marriage if caught. I wouldn't recommend going without your partner knowing about you going. If you keep it from them it looks sneaky and gives the appearance of cheating. If your partner doesn't want you going alone, ask her to come with you. If nothing is going on......you and your friend shouldn't have a problem with your mate being there. Good luck !
2006-10-04 10:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your partner, that means you are hiding something and they probably wouldn't approve. It is wrong! How would you feel if your partner did this behind your back? If you discuss it up front and they have no problem with it, go for it, otherwise, it is being dishonest and that is not ok.
2006-10-04 06:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, only if you want your partner to suspect you are cheating as the result of being so secretive about going some place with the opposite sex.
2006-10-04 06:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the intentions of your meeting. Ideally it's better for you to inform your partner that way the trust can stay in the relationship. It also help to extinguish any arguments before they can begin.
2006-10-04 06:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Reflective Acumen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on were you go. If it's a spontaneous lunch or something that's fine, but if you're planning on going to the movies or a trip to Vegas then you probably should tell the significant other.
2006-10-04 06:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Savez Agir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A committed relationship means an honest relationship.
I guess your question confuses me.
Can you clear up which you have?
2006-10-04 06:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by someones_gottadoit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you dont want to be in a commited redaltionship
if you love your partner and he loves you their should be no reason y you should nnot tell the truth
2006-10-04 06:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by katie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not!!! You should tell your partner cause if you tell them the truth they might freak out. BUT if you lie to them and they find it out it will be much worse!!!!!!!
Enjoy and good luck!!
2006-10-04 06:29:32 · answer #11 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋