My and my ex boyfriend were together for around a year and a half. We had some really nice times and we had our ups and downs mainly arguments caused by stupid things or me being silly. Well he split up with me around 3 and a hlf weeks ago. I do really miss him and i saw him the other night and we talked but he feels like i am holding onto something when i am trying not to.He tried to pin the blame of everything on me sayin i took him for granted but I kno i cared for him and loved him alot. He wants to be friends with me but he feels like one minute he is fine and the next he get aggitated saying he feels like i always have to be there when he is when this is not true i go down the pub with his friends origionally but they are my friends to. So i said to him well if you are going to b horrible then i will not talk and he sed im sorry i will be nice but i feel he has hurt me enough anyway now. But i do want to be friends but i wish we could be again he ses he does think about me. helpx
2006-10-03 06:31:24 · 8 answers · asked by moi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When someone breaksup with you when you weren't ready for it is hard. But you have to remember that you have to LET IT GO. It's not easy, but you'll get over it. And the best way to do it is occupy your time. Hang out with friends, go on a date, just stay productive. It's awkward to play the "friend" role after you broke up, so let the wound heal and decide if it's the right thing for you to do. Watch that movie two can play that game with Vivica Fox, it's funny but so true... see if that will help.
2006-10-03 06:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutt it off completely!! you are not going to be able to get over it if you are around him plus you both have mixed signals from each other and it will end up way worse than it already did if you don't tell him to go away plus this will somehow make you feel better if you end it!! It will suck but there is a reason you broke up and after awhile you only remember the good times and you forget why you couldn't stand him in the first place!! Hope this helps!
2006-10-03 06:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart feels. Love is a powerful thing. It never hurts to talk to a person. Sometimes that's what you need to do for closure or rekindling;whichever you choose.
2016-03-27 03:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be freinds for now and see where it goes but don't try the jealousy thing that only leads to bad things.
2006-10-03 06:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time!!! Time heals pain!!! People break up and make up all the time!!!! Who knows maybe you will see things differently later!! Time will tell!!
2006-10-03 06:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by TBONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. there are plenty of great people out there. Try to do things that are fun for you. you can drink but try to avoid the 2am drunk call.
2006-10-03 06:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds.
2006-10-03 06:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is done with you, dont be pathetic
2006-10-03 06:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋