Another question for girls ONLY (would like responses from those who responded to my 1st question)?

Question

I have received a lot of responses within the first 30 minutes of posting my first question, almost everybody selected B, with the acception of one and one really good answer selecting B for relationship and A for a fling. If you all are wondering I am B, I am attractive, I'm 33, have a good job, live in a nice place, just got a new car, not an SUV, how could you with gas prices. And guy A that I refer to is more of co-worker than friend, has the same job, pretty much everything is the same but he is more athletic and he treats every woman he's been with like a piece of meat, uses and abuses. Well for my question, if the majority of the answers are B, how come whenever this guy and I go out together, either a bar after work or Dunkin Donuts for coffee on our break, every girl will flock to him, I do understand that looks are how you make your first judgement but I can tell what kind of person someone is even by talking to them briefly, how can I find the girls that responded with B.

Answer 1

Refer to the answer from your first question:

A- fling
B- relationship

And, lets face it, in a bar, we're not looking for a relationship. We are looking for a guy that is going to boost our self esteem right that minute. The better looking the guy, the bigger the boost.

If it lasts more than a few days, we end up calling B to complain about A, and that's your "in"...

Answer 2

Dude, girls flock to the good looking guy. And he obviously is good enough to play the women. Girls will believe anything for a while. Does he carry a sign that says I use women? If he talks a good game there is no way for them to know that unless someone tells them.

And even if someone told them they would just justify it by saying to themselves "That was her, he won't do that to me"

Just play your position. You will find that in the end you will have the much nicer, loving woman, and he will be stuck with the leftovers after playing the field too long.

Answer 3

Most likely you won't find the girls that respond to you at a bar.. But even though they flock your co worker they still want the type B guy.. but females are a sucker for punishment and even if the guy hurt them over and over again, most likely they'll go back for more... it's just the way things are

Answer 4

probably because "a" exudes confidence and sexuality. he's got that bad guy vibe going on, and girls are just drawn to that initially. keyword initially. a bar is not the place for you to make a connection you need to try somewhere quieter or where you can have a chance to talk to girls. but in the long run, you're gonna win, you're gonna be the guy with the girls! good luck and don't ever give up!

Answer 5

women respond to confidence. obviously, your A guy has it. everything you're listing as assets are material. that initial attraction to material stuff fades if a guy is a jerk, like your coworker. bars are a great place to meet one-night stands. also, for some reason, it's ten times harder to find a girl when your looking. girls pick up on that subconsciously and see it as despartation (even if it's not true). my suggestion is just to throw yourself out there to meet people. don't make it about finding a girlfriend or getting laid. for some reason, we women are ten times more interested in a guy who is not interested in us. when you find the right girl, then make your move.

Answer 6

Quit looking. Seriously. When you stop "trying" to find something it usually shows up.

Answer 7

eaz start going 2 match.com

Answer 8

because they haven't yet got to know his personalty , when they do they will ask him for your number trust me