i am a simple person,helps everyone but in return people hate me.one person i love him soo much but in return he prefers my worst enemies better then me & when i try to tell him abt them he says ur worst than anybody else.in this case what can i do?remain silent or sit between them?
this hurts me alot when he ignores me & smiles them.i get dead mentally.help me or else.i get my self..............help me people.
how can i remain happy?
how i make him know that they r bad?
how can i survive?
2006-10-03 06:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Doctor Horror 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey Cheer Up!
Find a life around you.
You need good friends badly.
Find some good girl and get married.
2006-10-03 06:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sheena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all: Why do you want to be friends with people who do not treat you with respect? Secondly, why love someone who doesn't treat you with respect either? You deserve better. Did you give your "friends" a reason to hate you? It's a big world out there. Make friends who will not only hate you, but they will treat you like a human being and with respect. Keep doing your thing and stay focused. Everything will be okay. Good luck.
2006-10-03 06:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that your so called "friend" whom you love is using you. Why do you continue to do things for him when all he is going to do is choose the ones who don't like you as friends? You are allowing yourself to be used. Put your foot down and let him know, look I was trying to be your friend helping you out when you need it and all you did was stab me in my back. I don't think that I could be there for you anymore, I have better things to do with my life than be mistreated by a jacka** like you. Once you tell him that, walk away and live your life. So what, your not friends with him anymore, oh well. It is better for you to live your life in happiness than in the mess that is going on now. Your well being come first. And if you have already told him about the people that he is hanging out with and he don't want to listen. Let him find out for himself. Then he will come back to you, telling you that he should have listened to you in the first place. Always remember, He is going to want something from you before you want something from him. Take Care.
2006-10-03 06:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these people giving you reasons for why they hate you? If this person you love so much is breaking bread with people who are mean to you, why do you love him? People who love each other should stick up for one another. This does not sound like somebody you should be wasting your time with.
2006-10-03 06:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other friends it is a big world. Whydo you have to keep up with someone mistreating you. You don't work for him do you ? If he crosses the line call the Police don't be scared.
2006-10-03 06:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't run other people down and don't let him run you down. I think you need to run with a better circle of friends.
2006-10-03 06:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like this you don't need enemies!
2006-10-03 06:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch him, you can do better :)
2006-10-03 06:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋