ME AND HER BEEN GOING THRU A LOT OF THINGS LIKE FIGHTING AND IT ALWAYS BE MY FAULT AND I LAWAYS BE GETTING ADVICE FROM PEOPLE BUT ITS NOT WORKING I NEED REAL PEOPLE TIO HELP ME AND THEY ALWAYS SAY IF U NEED HELP CALL ME AND EVERY TIME I DO THEY NEVER BE AROUND AND I GET INTO IT WITH HER LIKE ALL THE TIME AND I NEED HELP SO PLEASE IF U CAN READ THIS AND HELP ME WITH A COUPLE OF ADVICE.
2006-10-03 06:30:41 · 10 answers · asked by troyson09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Prove that you are a different person now. Good luck!
2006-10-03 06:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say trust is earned. If you did something to make your mom not trust you need to prove to her that she can trust you. Do well in school, come home on time, don't argue with her, just basic stuff like that. Treat her the way you want to be treated. I know when I was young I thought my Dad did not know anything but as I got older I now see he was pretty smart. So give her a reason to trust you and hopefully everything will work out for you. Good Luck!!
2006-10-03 06:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by miataman042 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Listen to Mom...She does know things that you don't. It's not because she wants to prove you wrong, it's because she has the life experience and can forsee things differently. It's not a vindictive role that your mother has, but having been young, she does know what she is talking about.
Try doing as she asks and listen to her before you fight with her. It's so hard to believe that your Mother could be right....I am 45 and have had quite a few lessons from Mother that I never ever expected her to be right...but she was....
I have tried to tell my son, that I do this because I know through experience...not to make him look silly...
It's so hard...trust that Mother does know something.....if all else fails...be quiet and listen...nod your head.....remember she is the only mother you have....and she could be taken from you sooner than you think....enjoy her too...
talk,.......talk.....talk.......communicate....
2006-10-03 07:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO SCHOOL ,DO YOUR HOME WORK.CLEAN up around the house where your mom says she needs help.DONT stay out late, trouble happens late at nite.AND try not to fight with your mother. Just leave the room when she picks a fight. IF SHE continues if your old enough leave or stay with a family member. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE UNHAPPY.
2006-10-03 06:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I feel so sorry for you. Maybe first u should help washing dishes , do good in school, iron clothes and this kinda stuff. and later u should talk to her and tell her that she is ur mom and u love her! and keep being a kind and good person!
hope that helps!!
2006-10-03 06:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you said its always your fault, so STOP it, and apologize - tell her you are sorry for picking these fights, you don't know why you do it, and you don't want to fight. maybe if you talk to her, she'll stop being so on edge and defensive, (cuz i would be if i was fighting with my kid all the time), and you guys can somehow get along. good luck
2006-10-03 06:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask what you're able to do to help out around the homestead. seem valuable yet unlike you're attempting to win back her have confidence. do not circulate out until eventually then. fairly be respectful and valuable and notice the place it is going from there.
2016-10-15 11:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try listening without talking back and once she is done just walk away.
2006-10-03 06:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lick her toe and bark like a frog
2006-10-03 06:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i aree with carolynn.sit down and talk to her.
2006-10-03 06:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋