As for my husband, I let him do what he has to do. either with friends, work , or family. Hi anger though is so bad. I can't handle it, I try to be as calm as possible. He punishes me by ignoring me sometimes for the whole day, only if I had made him upset. Or he plays mind games just by the way he talks. He makes me laugh sometimes, and we have good times. But now, the majority is his attitude. I feel I have lost who I am...he isn't worried about anything, he just keeps telling me to take care of his mother more than him, feed her, and watch out for her. I do everything for their culture, I even became vegetarian for him, go to customs like him, and do activities. When the whole family sits at the table, they all talk in their language, and nobody never talks to me, they laugh and joke, and I just have my head down. I know the first year of marraige is supposed to be hard, and I set mind to that, but is this right? should there be more comprehension from him? or am I asking too much??
2006-09-28
06:24:17
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