2006-09-28 06:26:03 · 13 answers · asked by jubileejoy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His mother is a very nice lady and was and still a great mother .He never visits, or calls her forgets mother's day christmas and she always has his gifts for any holiday .If he treat his mother like that ,.what will he do to the wife
2006-09-28 06:49:37 · update #1
Not necessarily. If he has grown to be an independant thinker, a mature person with common sense and an ability to have a decent relationship with people. No matter how a person was raised, they can always take steps to change. If in your case he is neglectful, you might look deeper into the personalities involved and the cause and effect of his actions.
2006-09-28 06:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are variables to that question. In a general sense, if the mom is not a whack job and has tried to kill him, then yes you should be able to judge a man off of how he treats his mother. Here are some examples:
Guy 1- I was engaged to and then broke the engagement.
He used to curse at his mom and yell at her all the time and all she did was clean up after him and love him.
In turn to me he was very mentally abusive.
Guy 2- Friend
He loans his mom hundreds of dollars and dies her hair.
To his wife he's very loyal but clingy.
Guy 3- My Husband
His mom is bi-polar and has somewhat abused him, he has never laid a finger on her and he always listened to her when he needed to talk. He doesn't overly indulge her but he watches out for her.
He makes me very independent but at the same time knows how to cater to my needs. We have been together for 5 years and I fall more and more in love with him everyday!
Hope that Helps!!!
Good Luck with everything Hon!
2006-09-28 06:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have heard that - to see how a man will treat you, take a look at how he treats his mother. From my experiences, this seems to hold true; however, I don't want to make generalizations about the entire male population. I am sure there are some exceptions.
2006-09-28 06:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so true cause a man gets his soft side from his mom and you would thnik a good son will nuture his mom and see to it she is okay~ and yes he is a product of his past so if you think he will be a good husband when you are sick hmm, I say do not hold your breath if you get sick and he does not help you. Seems like he is not the good catch for you. He will neglect you cause he will tell you off the break my mom is okay she does not need anything she is strong or she raised all of us. Dumb~
2006-09-28 06:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! My ex husband treated his mother like a queen. I was treated like crap. My husband now treats me so good and he hardly had anything to do with his mother. It is just some B.S.
2006-09-28 06:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by whiskey_girl0814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only follow your hubby, do not enable her make you sense like you should leave. it will be sturdy to no longer stay so close, attempt to devise a fashion to flow to a unique state consisting of your guy, thats what i did. I stay a lot extra straightforward now, the drama is way less and that i have realized to stay with her lack of expertise over the phone. at the same time as toddlers get into the picture, it is going to easily be worse. stay far, distant!
2016-11-25 00:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's supposed to mean>>> if a man doesn't have tender/loving feelings for his mother, he won't have tender/loving feelings for his wife... & it was supposed to be applied to those mothers who truly are tender/loving mothers.
But, the way I look at it is>>> a man can choose to be a tender/loving husband, regardless of whether he has tender/loving feelings for his mother, or not... or whether his mother is a tender/loving mother, or not.
2006-09-28 06:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. My dad takes care of my mom like she's a queen but his mom is a seriously crazy biatch and he refuses to take care of her because of all the hell she's caused our entire family.
2006-09-28 06:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - just an old wife's tale!
People are themselves.
2006-09-28 06:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but with that he does not have good feelings.
2006-09-28 06:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋