i m 18 years old. i have a bf. he i very cold person.. very practical. like if he has to sleep he has to no maater what .. i mean if i wan to talk to him he wont bother that! he is a busy guy needs to see so much things.. he goes for tennis, golf n his studies. he tries to give me time but i am never satisfied.. then he gets sick of it.. that i m never satisfied! i undersatnd that but even i m his responsibility aint i? like wenevr he needs me i m there no maater what !! i mean if he wakes me up at midnight i will be up for him but i m sure he wont ever do that! am i being too much demanding? i love him a lot ! he is the only one in my life i look to! i love him a lot.. dont wana loose him sometimes he get really rude to me for not understanding and uses very harsh words.. i dunt like it ! what shud i do?
whta shud i do to make my relation good ?
to see him happy with me ?
he is really annoyed vid me and i fear loosing him !! tell me wat can i do ? how shud i behave vid him?
2006-09-28 06:29:21 · 13 answers · asked by gorgeous girl . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like the two of you aren't right for each other. That doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you, or with him - it just means the two of you aren't a good match.
If you're unwilling to live like this the rest of your life, break up with him. The sooner you move on, the sooner both of you can find someone else.
Good luck!
2006-09-28 06:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I know this may hurt, but by what you have described. This guy does not like you very much. Leave no one should have to put that much work into a relationship by themselves. Leave someone ese is deserving of you and vice-versa. Now that is advice from you have said of the relationship. There is always two dssides to a story.
2006-09-28 13:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by 817_TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is a complicated situation that you are complicating even further I would recommend if you want to save the relationship that you be completely honest with him let him know that your needs are not being met that you need more compassion from him and that if he cant provide it that you will have to make a decision. Don't be afraid of being alone or with out him happiness comes from within and you have to be happy with yourself for who you are. You will find that being happy with who you are will be very rewarding for yourself.
2006-09-28 13:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by shawn_mauldin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he might be wanting more space. but i had a bf like that and we ended up breaking up because of all the stuff he did and i ended up with someone so much better for me. give it mabe another month and if he dosn't pay enough attention to you it may be better if you do break up with him and find someone who will treat you right and like a princess that you are. thats what i did and i've never been happier.
2006-09-28 13:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by cristie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is talk to him and find out how he feels.
You two should then figure out what to do.
In a relationship both people should be involved, not just one.
2014-01-06 21:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lesley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen princess ... your a big girl now ..its not his fault ur spoilt.
You say ur never satisfied ... that says it all. U r not his responsibility ... go back to daddy.
what u should do .... is grow the hell UP!!
Dr Bad ( the real Hitch )
ps. er ... and stay away from bunnies ...they got rights too ;-)
2006-09-28 13:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you want a good relationship then I suggest a different person. You love a person for who they are, not what you want them to be. Secondly, go back to school.
2006-09-28 13:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone esle who is closer to your wants and needs. You don't need to treated like a fool.
2006-09-28 13:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by brayglenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting ur time with this moron and find a real prince who will treat you like a lady.
2006-09-28 13:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by fabulous diva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds kinda dangerous. but anyways, don't be so available. treat him the way he is treating you, and maybe he'll begin to know what it feels like. if you can't do that and talking to him about it won't help, then maybe you should find someone who is willing to treat you with kindness and respect.
2006-09-28 13:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋