Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

there's this boy i really like and we've been friends for quite a while. i'm not sure he likes me in the same way. however he does put a kiss at the end of his e-mails and invites me out alone to the cinema. how can i find out if he has a crush on me?

2006-09-28 06:55:03 · 14 answers · asked by helenagilchrist@btinternet.com 1 in Friends

It seems like instead of this generation getting turned on by actual girls they are with and know, they are living in this fantasy internet world.Is there guys that still value a nice normal girl instead of smut?

2006-09-28 06:54:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my ex husband dearly. We are actually thinking about getting married again. I love him. I'm pregnant. Yes, it's his. I love how he loves our two other children. He is the perfect man. One problem. I hate to have sex with him. I don't know if it's him or not. I just dislike him touching me in any sexual way. I feel like I am being raped. Sometimes I cry while we are still trying to do it & he has to stop. All I tell him is that it hurts. Other times I just lay there & pray for it to be over. I don't know what to do. I wish I could like it & be normal. I am second thinking this marriage because of this. Any advice?

2006-09-28 06:54:56 · 12 answers · asked by IMHO 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 15yrs.my husband and I have known each other for 19.We've had our share of ups and downs needless to say more downs than ups.But for the most part we've been true to each other.With that being said I've never given him a reason to not trust me.And he relentlessly says to me that he doesn't trust anyone in his life from me to our kids etc.Now does that seem a little bit odd?I could see if I did something to warrant his untrust but to just flat out not trust I have a very serious issue with that.How is it possible to survive in a marriage where one person has no faith in you whatsoever?My husband is self-employed so his work takes him away from home alot.So I have to trust that he's being faithful to me when he's away on business.I just don't see why he can't do the same.Can anyone shed some light on this for me please?I'd greatly appreciate it.

2006-09-28 06:54:54 · 11 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

example: u been with someone on and off for 3yrs and you know you love him so much but then u find out a month later that he lost feelings for u and he doesnt love u anymore but he starts another relationship with someone else

2006-09-28 06:54:47 · 20 answers · asked by LEsley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 06:54:41 · 19 answers · asked by shadow_dragoon89 1 in Family

I am 21 he is 23 I don't want to ge married tomorrow or even a year from now. But the problem is he says that he doesn't want to get married until he is like 35!!! No way am I waiting that long to start my family! How do I let him know that I am on a completely different page (I want to marry at 25-26) and ensure that he won't wait that long to take the plunge? We have a great relationship and have talked about having a life together but I don't want to get a letter from AARP before my kids are out of high school!!! How would you go about dealing with this?

2006-09-28 06:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its my 20 birthday..sad to say my dad is drunk.. he saw me and my 22 yr old bf slept at my room.. he said he didn't want to see my bf again, but they both had a good relation before.. the reason why my bf was at my room coz i work at night and he at day shift.. there is a storm that coz my bf to walk from his workplace until our house it was miles away no kiddin! the city got mess, billboards are all fallin down, tress are everywhere and accident that why he decided to walk, then he got home really tired and wet.
he invited me to go out for dinner to celebrate my birthday but i refused becoz i didn;t have a sleep 3 days ago.. tired of waiting i allow him to sleep next to me.. then my dad come in..were not doing anything bad.. it just our scheduled didn't met.. y need to slapped at me many times on my birthday..

2006-09-28 06:53:35 · 29 answers · asked by aerosemith_nirayvana 1 in Family

I am looking for a ideas on a good birthday present for my boyfriend. he is going to be 24 years old. He loves racing, and is heavily envolved in it. any ideas on what i could possibly get him for this brithday? i dont really wanna buy clothes because its kinda boring.

2006-09-28 06:53:32 · 6 answers · asked by racingurl37 1 in Singles & Dating

This woman and I were seeing eachother for over a year. We've been back and forth with each other time and time again. Breaking up then going back out. I truly love this woman and really think she's my soul mate. We've had deep conversations about this and she says that she loves me, she knows how I feel about her. I hadn't spoken to her in a couple weeks, we work together and have email, but we haven't talked. Then last friday she was suggesting that we go out again. I told her that I've tried really hard to get over her and her saying this to me just makes me start all over again. Today, I told her that I can't do this anymore. Why does she go cold and then want to be with me again????

2006-09-28 06:53:13 · 10 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is after you told him it wasnt right. Should he respect you ? Lets say he wants to marry you. Do you think it is right?

2006-09-28 06:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by Myeyezrlookin@u 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 06:52:33 · 3 answers · asked by CHARLIEDONTSURF 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I both have children of a similar age from previous relationships ( He has twins and I have a son)and would like to include them in the ceremony...Any Ideas on how to do this? We are trying to show the kids that they are going to be a important part of the new FAMILY.

2006-09-28 06:52:17 · 14 answers · asked by Pixie 2 in Weddings

Am thinking of calling this girl up but we have not meet in 2 months do you think she still likes me?

2006-09-28 06:52:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was seprated and filing for divorce and had sex with an my ex.bf well really the only other guy i dated before my husband .He was my first everything and i still have feelings for my ex.bf. we were both 18 at the time and he left me while pregnant i miscarried for another girl he dated on and off and recently married has been for 6 months. He said they were having problems. He said he would pay my medical bills should i invite him to the doctors with me?should i inform him the doctor saw two sacs and my hcg hormones are tripiling and i am most likely having twins?I know we are both 24 now and adults but he is still married and i still remeber what he did?

2006-09-28 06:51:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 06:51:08 · 4 answers · asked by Shalimaar 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was staying with a family member because she ask me to come stay and babysit her child because she shouldn't afford daycare so i went and everything was cool at first months went by and i started me a journal so she started reading my journal and got mad because of what i wrote about in it which were true she told me that she read it and i got at her about so after that she did it again this time it was in her room because i went looking for it after that i moved out took a few clothes and come back for the rest later so after i got settled in a new place i was going back for my clothes i get a phone call saying that this person thew my cflothes and shoes away what should i do.

2006-09-28 06:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The boyfriend is my brother...He is imature.....he calls her stupid, retarded, no good, and treats her like crap. She is not allowed to go anywhere or have fun, but he is........plus they have a baby(1 year)... neither of them seem happy together....She is scaired to death of him... when my bestfriend and I go to church, he drives by like 5 times(slowly). He is a acholic..druggie...and needs anger magament.

2006-09-28 06:50:07 · 21 answers · asked by Katie C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend I play music with. I find him very attractive. From time to time, I feel like he is flirting with me, and like he would like to ask me out. I do not have a problem being bold myself, but I am uncomfortable, because of the musical nature of our friendship, and because I really need a cellist to play with. I heard some timeback from another source that he has a girlfriend, though, but that was a while ago. I am starting to know him pretty well, but he never mentions anything about another woman, except as a "friend." I wrote him an email recently where I said I was very tired from all sorts of moving, I needed a little time to recuperate, but that I would like to get drinks with him in the near future, maybe with some other musicians. I also said that I really enjoyed playing with him, and how appreciative I was of how he had been supportive of my music. He didn't respond at all, but he respnded immediately to my invitation to play music. What kind of signal is this?

2006-09-28 06:50:01 · 2 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the problem:I have a boyfriend, we are together almost a month(I know that's not enough), but the problem is something else.Before my bf I loved one guy but between us didn't happen anything.I loved him so much and I still love him and I can't get over him.I love my boyfriend very much, but the love is not like with this first guy.What can I do?The worst thing is that I see this guy every day, we learn at the same school and every time I see him he also looks at me(always looks at me).I am angry at myself because I know that there is no future with this guy.I want to forget him and just be alone with my boyfriend.I think I am not grateful at all,I wanted boyfriend so much, now I have it, but I still can't get this guy out of my head.I don't want to like him, but I can't avoid him, I see him so much.Please help!And without bad comments please, I am already too sad :(

2006-09-28 06:49:56 · 4 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Do they stop watching their figures and giving bjs? Married men, help me out.

2006-09-28 06:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You can add your experiences on your best kiss, or just give your opinion....
I think intense slow kisses are nice. Kisses with passion.

2006-09-28 06:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

However, when I went round she was on her own and there was no wet paint anywhere. Is she cheating on me?

2006-09-28 06:48:14 · 31 answers · asked by eggy74uk 2 in Singles & Dating

My kids REFUSE to accept our divorce and my new boyfriend. I want to marry this man but the kids and my parents are SO mad and SO unaccepting of him. He hasn't done anything to them personally. My kids are 18,20, and l2. My 12 yr. old daughter threatens to live with her Daddy and never come see me. I was a good mother and no one can take that from me. My ex was controlling and abusive. I gave it 23 yrs. When will my kids accept this and come back into my life.?? Should I get rid of the boyfriend and not marry him. ?? They are forcing me to choose between a life with the man I love and the children that I love.....will the resentment ever end????? Do they EVER come around? What about when their Dad decides to date and find someone? I feel like they hate me. What hurts the most, is that I was number one in their life until this divorce. They feel sorry for their Dad. But he was the one who caused the tension in the home with his temper outbursts and all.I was the codependent

2006-09-28 06:47:40 · 20 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The problem is i am a rubbish chef and would like some ideas on cooking a nice piece of ham.

2006-09-28 06:47:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do women do that she has everything she wants a new charger,new pc(mybad), i give her everything and i get treated like **** i dont know please help

2006-09-28 06:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by TOM 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 06:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by BeEasy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my question is how do u talk to a guy that your friend ask him if he would ever go out with you and he said no. but u still kinda like him and cant get him out of head. wat do i do?????

2006-09-28 06:45:28 · 24 answers · asked by rodeojr23 1 in Singles & Dating

Short being under five foot six.
TALL WOMEN: What do you like least and most about being tall, tall being over five nine.
Men can answer this too, please incude your height!
Thank you.

2006-09-28 06:45:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi im 16 now..itz been 1 mnth dat i broke up wid ma bf.we had relation onli 4 1 mnth,cuz while our relationship i heard frm many of hiz frndz dat he is drug addicted n he even went 2 da proz center twice. bt wen i asked him he simply denied all diz thingz,bt afta da break up he confessed eveythin2 ma frnd..n now hiz blabin everywhere dat he ll marry me if necessry by force.he keepz mailin me all dat tym iu warned him several tymzz nt too mail me, bt hiz nt listenin 2 ne1....hiz gettin agressive!!! now i dunno wat 2 do i seriously need 2 get rid of him ..point 2 b noticed HE IS A GANGSTAR!-he sed he ll beat up ne1 who ll ask me out!! n da sadest thin is a very close frnd of hiz lykz me n i m relli interested 2 go out wid hiz frnd , cuz hiz a very nice guy, but im sure it ll creat a lot of probz!...4 u guys 1st plzzz tell how do i get rid of my X-BF!

2006-09-28 06:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by H@z3l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships