Here's the problem:I have a boyfriend, we are together almost a month(I know that's not enough), but the problem is something else.Before my bf I loved one guy but between us didn't happen anything.I loved him so much and I still love him and I can't get over him.I love my boyfriend very much, but the love is not like with this first guy.What can I do?The worst thing is that I see this guy every day, we learn at the same school and every time I see him he also looks at me(always looks at me).I am angry at myself because I know that there is no future with this guy.I want to forget him and just be alone with my boyfriend.I think I am not grateful at all,I wanted boyfriend so much, now I have it, but I still can't get this guy out of my head.I don't want to like him, but I can't avoid him, I see him so much.Please help!And without bad comments please, I am already too sad :(
2006-09-28 06:49:56 · 4 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let your boyfriend know about your ex.
Tell him how you still have some feelings for him, and ask him to comfort you. He should understand.
he might be a little jealous at first, but if you explain the whole situation to him, he should realize that it's not your fault.
That way you'll have someone to talk to about it.
Give your relationship with your boyfriend some time.
It takes time to love someone.
The longer you're with him, the more your feelings for him will grow.
In another month, you will love him more than you do today.
And a month after that, you will love him even more.
Eventually, your feelings for him will be very strong, and you won't think about your ex that much anymore.
It doesn't make you ungreatful.
It just shows that you have a big heart.
And someone broke it.
I hope you get things worked out.
You seem like a very nice person. <3
2006-09-28 06:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jalena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a normal feeling, don't feel ungrateful. what the problem you are having is that you are not happy with just one guy.
so in order to feel better, you need to find a part time job. Reason is to kill time and make yourself tired. That way with school, work, and a boyfriend, you won't have time to think, plus you will have extra cash to go shop, women go crazy when they can shop
2006-09-28 13:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are ungrateful because you have been allowed to live your life thus far with yourself as the center of the universe.
don't worry - most women are raised to believe that they are the center of the universe. It's only after several experiences with wiser men, in which they hand you the ugly truth that maybe you'll see that your feelings are only PART of the equation.
2006-09-28 13:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can't be in love with 2 people at the same time, dump your BF all you will do is hurt him. and you won't be happy, and either date the guy you love , but if he doesn't want to , don't date anyone til you are over him.
2006-09-28 13:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by John M 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋