This is after you told him it wasnt right. Should he respect you ? Lets say he wants to marry you. Do you think it is right?
2006-09-28 06:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by Myeyezrlookin@u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is cheating. especially if you said that you dont want him to do it.
2006-09-28 06:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's a "friend" then it should be ok. But us women know when our men say the other woman is just a "friend" it's totally bs.. And so it is wrong. Espeicall if u 2 have already had the talk about it and u told him u didnt' like it. And IF marraige has been brought up and he's still doing this then dont' marry him. He's still playing the game. Going from gf/bf to husband and wife is a big jump. Make sure it's the right man for you before you say "I do"... Good luck...
2006-09-28 14:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the emails are innocent...then there shouldn't be a problem. I'm sure some start out innocent and before you know it he is having an affair or something, but you have to trust him. I email a guy that i met thru YA...i emailed him because i liked his comments..seemed to be a funny guy...he's married and i have a serious bf...true i doubt that his wife knows...and my bf doesn't either persay...but we're adults and it's been nothing sexual at all...he lives in another state even. Besides, my bf is part of a community on a website...i trust him/he trusts me....you start freaking out over nothing and you will create your own problem..and will be sorry for it...lay off the guy...if he's talking marriage...he loves you...enjoy him...focus on the good and don't look for bad things.
2006-09-28 13:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES, IT IS CHEATING. ANYTHING HE DOESN'T WANT YOU KNOW ABOUT OR WOULDN'T DO WITH YOU RIGHT NEXT TO HIM IS CHEATING. IT SHOULD BE THE DEALBREAKER.
IT DEMONSTRATES LACK OF SINCERITY WHEN HE SAYS HE WANTS TO MARRY YOU BUT BEHAVES DIFFERENTLY (THAN WHAT HE SAYS TO YOU) TO MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS (THAT EXCLUDE YOU) WITH OTHER WOMEN.
WHAT HAS TO FALL FROM THE SKY FOR YOU TO SEE THAT HE IS FULL OF HIMSELF? HONEY, HE IS JUST SAYING WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR SO YOU WILL STICK AROUND AND TOLERATE HIS CRAP.
YOU SHOULD MOVE ON AND SPEND TIME WITH A GUY WHO CAUSES YOU TO NEVER QUESTION, WONDER, OR WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU. YOU DESERVE A GUY WHO'S ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOR MATCHES WHAT HE SAYS TO YOU.
QUIT MAKING EXCISES FOR THIS GUY. HE WON'T CHANGE OR GET IT. HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU. THAT IS APPARENT BY HIS ACTIONS.
YOU ALREADY TOLD HIM HOW YOU FELT ABOUT IT, AND HE CONTINUED TO DO IT. WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU? DUH...
STICKING AROUND TEACHES HIM THAT YOU DON'T REALLY MEAN WHAT YOU SAY, AND THAT HE CAN GET AWAY WITH DISRESPECTING YOU OR HURTING YOU AND YOU WILL CAVE IN AND TOLERATE IT.
MOVE ON, HONEY. YOU DESERVE BETTER. YOU DESERVE TO BE WITH A GUY WHO IS SO GOOD TO YOU THAT YOU WILL WANT TO BRAG TO ALL YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT HIM.
2006-09-28 14:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not cheating i mean each one still needs his r her space n time so if he email some frends i dont see any harm in that unless the emial r of a different manner then thats a prob
2006-09-28 13:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cops 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you work, you outlook your co-worker anyway, so emailing is never going to be cheating
cheating can only be done on what you put in it, plus if it is only a pen pal writing nasty stuff and you do it with your bf/gf, then it just getting ideas.
so it depends on how you see it
2006-09-28 13:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no he shouldnt be emailing other women
2006-09-28 14:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by raudidave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋