Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

My only request to the best man was that they go out to a strip club instead of bringing strippers in. He is single, my fiance obviously is not and I know how bad these parties can be. Well, I just found out the best man, despite my one and only request, is planning it at someones house. I am very upset and do not know how to handle this. Its almost like if it will really hurt and bother me, his friends are even more excited about doing it. I know I am not marrying them but. The wedding is only 3 months away and I don't know that I can marry someone who can not stand up for me and ask for something different. I am not insecure just want real love and respect from my future husband, he has had a lot of time to get this stuff out of his system. I am just looking for some advice and opinions. Thank you

2006-09-28 07:21:11 · 20 answers · asked by Swede1 1 in Weddings

I still live with her and my dad. I usuallly don't have cerfew yet R and unrated movies are still a problem. Do you think she is overprotective?

2006-09-28 07:20:56 · 12 answers · asked by ilove_twilightmovie08 2 in Family

I'm madly in love with my girlfriend, so much that I intend on marrying her. However, we don't want to rush into marriage. I am moving out soo and need a roommate. I would love for it to be here. I want to be with her whenever I can and have her in my arms at night. Is that wrong? All the research I've done says it is bad for a relationship to move in with each other before you get married. Is that true?

2006-09-28 07:19:36 · 20 answers · asked by greyamani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like texting a guy I've got a crush on (he knows :)) What shall I text him?

2006-09-28 07:19:22 · 41 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating

Are you or do you know of a heterosexual man that loves shoes? I love them and my step-dad loves to buy them too. He likes to buy a new pair every month or two, especially to match sports outfits & unifoms for basketball.I dont think it makes him a sissy. I need as many repsonses as possible to show my husband that kid is not "weird." p.s he uses allowance, birthday money & rewards for good grades to buy them.

2006-09-28 07:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by Chrissy C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

On the first date this guy comes back to my motel room after I drove three hours and uses my bathroom and leaves the seat up , doesn't flush and left the door open when he did his business, should this be the last date?

2006-09-28 07:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by missuninformed 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to be a Mother to my own Mother any more!
I don't want her out on the streets.. but i'm sick of giving my money away to here while i'm still in debt!
She has no goals, no friends, no motiviation, she don't want anyones help, she stubbarn! she says she tries but how by waiting for it to knock on her door or step on her toe! I love her with all my heart.. i try to help i guess i'm not doing something right!
she finally got health insure threw the state!
and now we find out she has very high blood pressure and is about a step away from a heart attack!
we are in the process of moving! well she is i'm still getting my stuff out of the house! I do understand how she feels i mean she feels like she lost me her b/f and daughter because now i have a lover and moving on with my life! she has to move to a smaller place so she can keep her help from the state and go by her income and that's nothing she can't find a job maybe too old! she is in her 50's what to do help!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-28 07:17:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-28 07:16:58 · 31 answers · asked by zildjianmister12 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here it is,my husband and I have been together for 9 years I have 2 daughters from and earlier relationship,a year into our relationship we had our son..our marriage is really good! But... our kids are now 11,9,6 years old...and I have to admit I do EVERYTHING FOR THEM/and my husband none of them have to do dishes,clean their rooms,bathrooms,do chores and so on...I'd also have to admit my kids are lazy! and very messy...they don't pick up after themselves and whine when I do ask them to clean,maybe thats why I don't ask anybody to help me around the house...It's just easier to do it myself,but I know thats not right...Hubby has stated more then a few times that if I don't change and start making them help out and do work around the house,at the very least clean up after themselves he's leaving me and getting a divorce...so is he just acting like an a s s ? or do I have my head in the sand? He's says I'm not teaching them anything by doing it all for them,but thats how I was raised.

2006-09-28 07:16:36 · 73 answers · asked by vanislandwitch 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this girl which is my ex now but we still fool around but she's going out with a another guy and she say's he doesn't mean anything to her but she say's she still and always well love me. What should i do?

2006-09-28 07:16:26 · 6 answers · asked by ~Unknown~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I tried to just ignore her because I will not disrespect her since she is my mother. However, I can no longer deal w/ her calling me cussing and fussing then hanging up the phone. I avoid her because she has a nasty attitude. Although we live in the same town I only visit on holidays briefly and for her birthday. I recently limited her time with her grandchildren because she spends the time cursing and complaining to the children about me and indoctrinating them with negativity. They should not have to exposed to that as I was a child. I do not want to feel guilty, but I do not feel that I should have to deal with that type of behavior because she is my mother. I have a family of my own and I need peace in my life - not my momma and her drama. She has an explosive temper and lacks the maturity to have a conversation about why I think it is better to love her from a distance rather than having me lose all that's calm and peaceful within me and go off on her. I'm on the verge!

2006-09-28 07:15:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

him stop thinking that way othr than talking to him dirctlyi know i made a mistake trelling him tah ti love him, but u know he was very very very nice with me!! thanks!
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2006-09-28 07:15:04 · 3 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

is cheating when u have sex with someone other than ur spouse

2006-09-28 07:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Literal equation with logarithms.
New at this, trying to help my father with his homework and it will also help me learn some extra math.

2006-09-28 07:14:38 · 4 answers · asked by Lynn 1 in Family

If you never told him u loved him neverpromised him anything.. u guys only kew each other for 2 months and after 1 year hes still chasing u telling u he loves u ?? ahh should i belive it?

2006-09-28 07:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by Viinna_ 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with or treat a guy who acts like a little boy?

2006-09-28 07:14:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 07:13:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at work,he's really friendly and always makes an effort to talk to me. We was talking about food today and he asked if i wanted to come out for a chinese. I said yes and i asked for his number(which he gave me). I'm not quite sure if he's just being nice and this is a just a co-worker go out kinda thing,or do you think he genuinely fancies me? He's friendly to everyone so i'm not sure. He also mentioned before about helping me fill out my drivers license form,what do you think?

2006-09-28 07:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm best friends with both of them but should i ask her direct or see if her friend/my frind knows lol

2006-09-28 07:13:28 · 7 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy for like a month and he finally came to me and said ...i love you...i was amazed and so happy he felt that way ...well within the week he broke up with me a total of 3 times and said we should just be friends!!whats up with that ...he said he loved me and it was that easy to let me go? on our 1st and 2nd break up we went back out the next day, but now its been a week and he hasnt called nor tried to get me back!! what can I do !!ill take anything !!!any advice plz help me

2006-09-28 07:13:16 · 18 answers · asked by miss_diamondprincess18 1 in Singles & Dating

My father died in Nov. of 2004 of cancer, ever since it has been extremely hard on me. I need someone with similar experience to talk to. Please take this one serious.

2006-09-28 07:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by sexy_latina 2 in Family

i have a gf and i love her and i wanna get off with her but i dno realy what to do can some1 help me thnxs!

2006-09-28 07:12:25 · 1 answers · asked by richie h 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do they ask about what they should do when their (serious) boyfriends or husbands go out or talk to other women who have crushes on them? They say they dont like it, but i dont understand it. Y do they put up with that? Im like, "Hello, thats YOUR man. Y are you letting him and y does he think he can do such a thing?"

2006-09-28 07:12:21 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Singles & Dating

i want knoe what is love mean , why we always try to find someone spl , and when i find then hurt that person many time ,is it love .tell me love is exist or not

2006-09-28 07:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by jerry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 07:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by nishsbooth17 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

k we broke up after a three year realtionship and I always thought two of her friends Gerald and Adam didn't like me but then when they found out they came to my house and beat me up and said that I should go to hell and that I hurt someone too close to them for me to get away with it and then said that they loved her and I've hurt her too many times, What do I do I luv everything about her the way her hair moves when the wind blows and she smile when I would walk down the street and that little gloew she always had to her cheecks in the cold, but not only is she mad and hugging Gerald all the time now he's gonna tell her (have no idea when) and she won't even look at me anymore Plz help I swear I only cheated on her 35 times. BUt it was a mistake what do I do according to her friends Gerald looks like a twin of the headsinger from MCR and Adam looks like a model what do I do I love her but so does Gerald cuz once this other guy said Brittany was ugly and he smacked him, what do I do

2006-09-28 07:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by eric.gothicgod666 1 in Singles & Dating

90 % of the women, I have slept with don't like being on top they prefer laying on their back. Are their any women out their that like being on top.

2006-09-28 07:09:57 · 22 answers · asked by BIGGIP 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband sucks at romance and surprises, I'd like to know what I am missing!

2006-09-28 07:09:28 · 18 answers · asked by what 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna be the one a guy looks at and says wow shes cool. I need to know if i should be more outgoing or what? Give me details on things i could do to atrract the guys!

2006-09-28 07:09:19 · 18 answers · asked by miss_diamondprincess18 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 07:08:52 · 24 answers · asked by Pompin Jo 2 in Singles & Dating