is cheating when u have sex with someone other than ur spouse
2006-09-28 07:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cheating isn't just about sex. It includes this distancing your self from your spouse or love interest and sharing those feelings with someone else. For example, if your at work and there is a guy that you put before your husband or boyfriend, that's cheating. If your out with the girls and see a fine guy and you choose to sleep with him or do whatever,, yes that's cheating. Giving up your relationship to someone else other than the one your suppose to be with.
2006-09-28 07:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything you wouldn't do with another person in front of your spouse or significant other is cheating. Ask your self if they saw you doing it would they be hur, mad or even leave you.. then the answer is yes it is cheating.
2006-09-28 14:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyones definition is different. Kissing someone other than your spouse especially if its a passionate kiss can be considered cheating
2006-09-28 14:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is established by the rules. Couples today have more individual rules than in the past. Many couples swap by intent, and others fully tolerate their spouse's affairs outside of the relationship. Ergo, I'd have to say it would depend on the rules of the individuals involved.
2006-09-28 14:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Cheating" is what your spouse or significant other define it to be.
Some people think that "cyber sex" constitutes cheating.
Others consider it cheating if their spouses have an emotionally intimate relationship (non-physical) with another member of the opposite sex.
Some people are into "open marriages," where they don't define any physical relationship as cheating (Victorian morals notwithstanding.)
If you want to know if YOUR spouse thinks something is cheating, ASK.
You can't impose your own feelings in this matter on someone else - because you aren't them.
2006-09-28 14:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is when you have sex with someone else or even think about it. You should seek help if you are contemplating being with another. Cheating can be looking at Playboy/Playgirl magazines....you give a part of yourself to a stranger instead of your wife/husband. Share everything with your partner. Not with a picture or another person. Who is the most impt? Think about it.
2006-09-28 14:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by lucy p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this for real? Of course it is! A better question would have been: Is mild-flirting with unattractive co-workers considered cheating, or just a way of coping with daily pressures? Your question sounds like:
Is cutting someones throat with a kitchen knife for no reason whatsoever wrong?
2006-09-28 14:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Deelman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is when you ultimate betrayal. It is when you care more about yourself and not the person who you love. You may think cheating won't hurt you or your partner, but it destroys the only thing that really matters; which is trust. Without that you have got nothing!!!! You not only cheat your partner, but yourself!!!
2006-09-28 14:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep- even kissing is cheating. Anything physically intimate (other than a foot/back massage) is considered cheating.
2006-09-28 14:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Renee25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a start. But cheating on your wife, is doing anything behind he back. In short, things that you can not tell her about, or things that would her her feelings.
2006-09-28 14:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋