i want knoe what is love mean , why we always try to find someone spl , and when i find then hurt that person many time ,is it love .tell me love is exist or not
2006-09-28 07:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by jerry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.
The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages (though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry). Others maintain that love really exists, is not an abstraction, but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another. And others attempt to define love and apply the definition to everyday life.
2006-09-29 01:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I am taking a shot in the dark beacause i do not fully understand what you asking.
Love has a different meaning to everyone.
Love does exist. It is just that some us never really find true love and have to settle for just the fact that that person loves us.
Some of us are also afraid of love that is why we hurt the people closest to us. It is mainly because we spend most of our time thinking that we are going to hurt them that we actually do and do not realise it. Sometimes we try to prevent ourselves form hurting others so much so that we really do it unknowingly.
2006-09-28 14:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone in the world has a soul mate. Someone that they have a special bond with. Someone that they are destined to fall in love with. Whether or not they get together is just fate. I may love someone deeply, and he may love me but it's not always going to happen because of other people or difficult circumstances. You know when you are in love. It's so simple. If you constantly think about him/her just wishing you could be together every minute of your life and you long for them that you heart literally aches....well thats when you realise you've fallen for them. It's difficult to explain what you feel. I've hurt someone and he's hurt me but I still love him and I just know he loves me too. I don't think it can happen though because we've both upset each other to the point where we don't talk anymore and I doubt we will ever talk again, I miss him so much but if it's supposed to be this way then there's nothing I can do.
Don't try to find someone, it will just happen....sometimes it's staring at you right in the face but you just don't realise. Love exists all around us, love of family, friends, partners, pets and love of the world.
2006-09-28 14:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is when a guy and a girl want to get it on pretty much all day. You will know when you find someone to get it on with at all times. fo real. get gangsta. gangstas dont need to know how to speak proper english.
2006-09-28 14:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by T-Luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE.. is wanting and needing a special someone to want and need and cherish you, both in good times and bad times.
LOVE... is freely giving oneself to a special someone without fear, without restraint, without pretense, without calcualtion, without manipulation and without exploitation.
LOVE... invites, encourages, and exhorts each other to grow and develop for their own sake and in their own ways, without trying to basically change each other to satisfy our own instinctive selfishness.
LOVE... cannot be examined or analyzed, it cannot be commanded or coerced, it cannot be pushed or hurried, it cannot be bought or purchased, by saying and doing all the right and proper things.
LOVE... is the voluntary gift of one's precious self to a special someone, without ever fully knowing or understanding why we do so, but recognizing the real thing when we experience its mystical magic and transforming power.
LOVE... is the freedom and comfort of being myself with you, and you being yourself with me, and the acceptance of each other as much as for what you are as for what you do or don't do.
TO LIVE WITHOUT LOVE, is to live a HOLLOW and HELLISH life.
TO LIVE WITH LOVE...is to experience the quiet peace, joy and intimacy that are born of soul-searching struggles and bruising battles won and lost, and to TOUCH HEAVEN HERE ON THIS PLANET EARTH!
2006-09-28 14:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by silman cade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about hormones and chemical attraction, but that's no bad thing. Try to be friends too, its kinder that way.
2006-09-28 14:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Beebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-09-28 17:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, love is good.
if some one fall in love with you, surely you should fall in too with 200% extra power.
2006-09-28 14:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by asru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, mean love good. Probably never you happening to.
2006-09-28 14:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is heavenly,love is good.You also love him or her.
2006-09-28 14:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by atiqueflorida1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋