Is conversing with women behind my wifes back cheating ?

Answer 1

This is how you determine it.........

If you can't tell her about it, because you expect or anticipate a negative response.......then you probably should NOT be doing it. If it isn't cool enough to let her know about it, then cut it out. Obviously if you are keeping it a secret, YOU KNOW it isn't okay.

Don't try to justify it or make excuses for it. Be accountable and responsible. If you want to talk to women behind her back, then just do it and don't make excuses for it. BUT be prepared for the consequences when she finds out. Because eventually she most definetely will.

What is done in the dark, ALWAYS comes to the light.

Answer 2

You have to work with women right? You are always going to have to talk to them at some point. Talking is not cheating but what you are talking about could put you in a place to cheat. Some might say that you are cheating because there are things that would come up that you should be talking about with your wife. I believe that most people have probably had conversations with another person that they might feel embarrassed to share with their spouse. My opinion is that you are not cheating and are safe.

Answer 3

Having a conversation with a woman is not at all bad.
But the fact that you have it behind your wife's back means that its a conversation that you don't want your wife to know.
Why behind her back?

Yes definitely cheating

Answer 4

I think your definition of Cheating should be a little broader.

If you are merely talking to other women at work for example, then that is not Cheating.

However, if you are talking to another woman and you would not like your wife to know what you are talking about, or if you are talking about things of a sexual nature - then I would consider that being "disloyal" but not necessarily unfaithful.

Answer 5

What are you talking about? Is it your typical "office flirtation?" or you talking about sex? The fact that you ask, points out that you maybe talking about things you should not or looking for other things. Are you happy with your marriage? How is your communication with your wife? Maybe you should concentrate talking to your wife more than other women.

If your marriage IS strong however, and you KNOW that you are not doing anything "bad," then there is nothing to worry about. I've had best friends at two different jobs who happened to be females and my wife knew about it. There was nothing to hide.

Answer 6

Why are you "conversing" behind her back? You obviously have something to hide. So, I have to say yes, because it's obviously on your mind, like the next step to your conversations. A conversation that was innocent in content wouldn't have to be hidden.

Answer 7

It depends on what you mean by conversing and behind your wife's back. Is it secretive? Does your conversation dishonor your wife in any way?

Answer 8

What are you conversing about? Just talking to another woman isn't but the fact you say it's behind her back leads me to think there is more to it. You know if what you are doing is wrong.

Answer 9

I'd say it depends on the conversation - though "behind my wife's back" implies that you already know the answer to this question.

Answer 10

it is if you don't do it in front of her face. why? is she so jealous? that you have to say hi only when you are by yourself? I'm sure she talks to men and if she says she doesn't then don't believe her. She has to realize that you may know some women that she doesn't just like she knows some men you don't know. Try introducing each other if you do run across another woman and say something like: This is Mary from work and a few words and then go about your business that's all..............