i went out with this guy for like a month and he finally came to me and said ...i love you...i was amazed and so happy he felt that way ...well within the week he broke up with me a total of 3 times and said we should just be friends!!whats up with that ...he said he loved me and it was that easy to let me go? on our 1st and 2nd break up we went back out the next day, but now its been a week and he hasnt called nor tried to get me back!! what can I do !!ill take anything !!!any advice plz help me
2006-09-28 07:13:16 · 18 answers · asked by miss_diamondprincess18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let go of him. Do you know the old saying, "you always want what you can't have"? Don't let him know he can have you back. Don't seem desperate, don't stare, don't call... men want what they feel they can't have. Be happy, content and smile like your world is just fine without him.
2006-09-28 07:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lorie S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, don't waste your time. You dated the guy for a month, that's not enough time to know anyone well enough. What it sounds like to me is that you need a relationship to feel better about yourself. *ala "ill take anything"*. When you have that mindset, you'll find yourself somewhere you don't want to be and by the time you realize it, it'll be MUCH harder to get out. Not to mention, your friends will get sick of hearing about it all, the drama and such.
It might seem impossible, but another guy WILL come along. The thing is, the best relationships come along when you least expect it. But a guy who breaks up with you 3 times..and you get back together the dady after a break-up isn't mature enough for a serious relationship and you be thankful you didn't waste more time. "I love you" is really a meaningless phrase these days. It's so easy to say without really anything behind it. It gets thrown around way too much.
The important thing is to take from it the good and leave the bad.
2006-09-28 07:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-24 17:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Royal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is to move on... You only have a month and some change invested in this guy, so do not waste any more time or effort on him. You can do better, even though it does not seem like it, you can...
2006-09-28 07:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it up and go find someone who isn't all screwed up in the head ok. i had a similar relationship and it was so stressful on me cause i never knew for sure what was going on. if someone really loves you, they don't want to keep breaking up with you ok. it's easy to say those 3 words, but unless you really mean them...they're just words and nothing else. move on sweety...you can do better
2006-09-28 07:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by raylie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First concern is saying I love you after 1 month. Guys who say that after 1 month are in it for sex. If you had sex with him then that is why he broke up with you. If you didnt have sex with him then that is why. Either way, I would say he isnt worth it. Move on
If you dont want to do that then the saying "He who cares the least wins" fits here.
2006-09-28 07:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by boyandhisdog2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. how can you be in love w/someone you hardly even know? Desperation is a stinky perfume. In other words he can sense how desperate you are. Sounds like he wanted something from you, got it, then dipped out. Next time don't be so easy and eager to please.
2006-09-28 07:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by only p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. why do you want someone who obviously doesn't want you? you deserve much better. it's better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn't value you for who you are, and who will leave you when you are no longer convient for them. I just hope no sex was involved. The sooner you learn to respect yourself, the sooner you will get respect from others. Good luck to you.
2006-09-28 07:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by RACHEL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should want to get back with him. He sounds unstable if he's going to tell you that he loves you and then says he just wants to be friends.
2006-09-28 07:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else and possibly make him jealous. If he doesn't feed into that then move on. Men are a dime a dozen.
2006-09-28 07:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋