Do they stop watching their figures and giving bjs? Married men, help me out.
2006-09-28 06:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lmao...wow are you about to get married b/c if so she sounds like a lucky lady... ;o)
The truth is that SOME women, once they have married their man now know they can move on to the next goal. Which means that they might not have to worry about their weight or their man's sexual pleasures anymore.
That shouldn't happen in my opinion. However the man can keep this from happening. Make her feel sexy and she will want to stay that way for you and will want to pleasure you, as long as she is getting something back too. Remember it's a give and take thing. Feel free to communicate with her in a nice way and I'm sure she would want to keep you happy if you do that for her.
So mainly the reasons are:
1) Having children (so give her a break)
2) New Goals (jobs, family, money, etc.)
3) Feeling that your husband doesn't feel the same about you (or getting bored)
Hope that helps...Good luck with everything hon!
2006-09-28 06:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you get comfortable with someone, you don't pay as much attention about you figure as you use to. You don't feel that "need" to impress them anymore. I look better after we got married and had to kids. For some it's not so easy to lose the weight. About the bj's....I don't know why she would stop after they get married.
2006-09-28 13:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by whiskey_girl0814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, most of the responses here are from women. Women let them selves go after they get married.
But I do agree with the kids thing. Having kids is not easy for the woman. Not on the body or the mind.
It is very difficult to have sex when your kids are up til 8 or 9 pm and get back up at 7 am.
2006-09-28 14:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was heavy when I got married, and I don't mind giving my husband BJ's if he wants one, so not in all cases.
Depends on the relationship just like everything else I think.
2006-09-28 13:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife continued with bj's and after three kids weighs about 118# she is hot. However she told me the other night she has lost all love for me and in fact is having an affair and we are not having sex anymore. Guess the answer is yes but then they get crazy and leave.
2006-09-28 14:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I got skinnier and I like to have sex more. My husband and I have sex all of the time. But I don't give him BJ"s because he says he doesn't want them. We just have wild monkey sex. I think women that hold out on their husbands aren't very bright. That is just asking for him to cheat!
2006-09-28 14:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am married and stillm look good! I weigh 120 and wear size a size 5, which isn't bad at all! I love to please my husband in any way I can! It turns me on to give him pleasure! Even when I can't do anything (that time of the month) I still make sure he gets his!
2006-09-28 14:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In fact Im more sexually into my husband. Ive lost alot and weigh 115 now after 3 kids. I LOVE giving my husband Bj's and asting him. I love to pose for him when he masterbates (bonus he earned after we wed). I still sneak touches in the car and please him when he watches TV. I still dress up and act in spontaneous ways. The answer is no and qwe actually have more sex now.
2006-09-28 13:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About body shape, it is the all guys fault, cause they addopt that attitude of "I WILL ACCEPT ANYTHING CAUSE I LOVE", so why should women care? About bjs, I dont know.
2006-09-28 14:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a married woman and i can say from my own experience, it wasn't the getting married that caused those things. it was having children. children wreak havoc on our bodies and with children it seems there is almost no time for sex at all. our lives are completely chaotic now.
2006-09-28 13:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jen k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋