I am recently divorced with two kids. My exwife has remarried.
I bought a toy for each of my kids (something I don't do a lot by the way), and wanted them to take them home. The ex and her husband said no, and that they can't take any toys home ever. I asked why, and they said they have enough, and if I keep the toys I get them with me, they'll have things to play with at my house. I agreed with that logic.
This past weekend I tried to send two pictures home with the kids of our time at a Renaissnace Festival. I was asked to not send pictures home, and furthermore to not send anything period.
Is this unreasonable on their part? Am I justified in wanting to do things like this? Also, are there any research articles that can help support why it is good for the kids to have things at their home to remind them of me?
They flat out told me that they don't need those pictures and that they are my memories.
Any help would be great.
2006-09-26
05:06:29
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Marriage & Divorce