Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

Before I tell you about the problem, I want to tell you all, my bf and I have a wonderful relationship and we love each other very much... We have so much fun together and get along very well...but on the phone, here is how it goes:

My bf and I argue about little stupid things constantly...lol, I need advice...?
We would be talking and then we get into small disagreements constantly...and when I say about stupid stuff, I mean really stupid...lol...do opposites really attract?..........idk,


I never implied that I was stupid, I said that our arguments are stupid...can you read?...


And when I do drop it, he wants to act like a little girl...After I drop it he won't talk and all of his responses to whatever else I bring up are "uh huh", "yeah"...or "sure"...and stuff like that...this stuff frustrates me to no end...I swear...I need more answers...help...

2006-09-26 05:44:24 · 10 answers · asked by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i "had" a lovely dynamique friend...
she was my past my futur my all my everything...
but.. i saw her kissing my boyfriend!!!!!!
what i gotta do???
i talk to her again or not??

2006-09-26 05:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Friends

My fiance told me that she loves me and that i should trust her, but i have a very hard time doing that. She was in a 2 year relationship witha guy and she said that they never did anything but kiss. I don't know whether to believe her or not. What do you think.

2006-09-26 05:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres a girl at school who i reely like. alot! i was goin 2 ask her out but now shes sick at home. should i go c her?

2006-09-26 05:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my boyfriend of one year needs space..I know he does to figure out how to get over his past and live in the here and now. I have wanted and tried to accept this and allow space with out the threat of leaving him...just letting him grow and figure his own head out. I explained that I can not be a comfort to his pain from the past relationship but, a companion here and now helping eachother through ups and downs in life...He does not want to admit that I help numb the pain. I cant be with him when he can not "be" with me here and now. I can support him, be his friend and be here when he is ready for us...but, that will never happen if I don't let go for now..he must feel what it is like with out me to even know if that would truly matter. When I try to do this ..he gets so very upset and claims to not want me to and that he does care for me greatly....only when I try to let go a bit does he feel so strongly...in the relationship...he is confused and not sure what to do.Help?

2006-09-26 05:43:16 · 3 answers · asked by givemeprivacy 1 in Singles & Dating

7 Yrs ago, I moved 600 miles away from home. My mom has only come to visit me 1 time, and my sister has never been here. I go there every other christmas and every summer. When my grandmother gets sick or even my mom I went back home and stayed with them a month at a time, I am married w/ a step daughter. I do everything I can to help them, why don't they want to come and see me? I'm the one who always has to go there... I leave my family here behind to go and help them but they cant even come here for a simple visit, they have more money than i do, but i live in a nice place, they can afford to travel more than I can.

2006-09-26 05:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by love420flower 2 in Family

2006-09-26 05:42:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have one child, he is a monster in the sack. He hasn't dated anyone and neither have I. It has been over a year since the divorce.

2006-09-26 05:42:44 · 28 answers · asked by Hillary Dillary 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 05:42:38 · 22 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Friends

i used to live in guilford park

2006-09-26 05:42:00 · 6 answers · asked by kim in guildford 1 in Friends

Me and my bf are together now for 3 months. I know he cares so much for me, and I do for him. He's the sweetest thing I've ever had.
My company sent me to UK, gave me place to stay here, and is asking me now to go to the LA for more than 3 yrs. I'll be getting a position, pay raise, a house and a car from the company. I've been brought up in the States, and I love the people.
I like UK, but the weather is horrible and everything is expensive, and the job is not interesting. All I miss is my bf.
If I leave, I feel I'm going to miss something huge. Someone who might have been the one...I never felt this strong.
But if I stay in UK, I must apply for a visa, a job, a place to stay...and English isn't my first language, and I never lived abroad alone. It's going to be a huge huge risk.
I've talked to him. He was surprised. He wants me to stay, but at the same time, he says it's my decision and he'd have to respect my choice...I'm so upset.
What would you do in my situation...? Guys?

2006-09-26 05:41:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it? I'm really confused. Is it like, believing in God? What do they do?

2006-09-26 05:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 05:40:45 · 19 answers · asked by Kristie D 1 in Singles & Dating

if you ask something on this thing does to take ponits away b/c i had 112 now i have 96?

2006-09-26 05:40:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do should i just accept the fact that he love his dogs like children.

2006-09-26 05:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by MRS.H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I get a boy to know I'm interested in him, without coming on too strong?
I have a bit of a crush on a boy I've recently met-- I invited him to go somewhere with friends, but he couldn't come-- I don't want to keep peppering him with invites-- how long should I wait before I call or text him again?

2006-09-26 05:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by silly girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm known as the type of person who always needs someone. I totally agree because I'm a sucker for love and I hate to be alone. Now recently I broke up with my ex bf cuz all we ever did was argue and it seemed as if we could never get along plus we were in a long distance relationship which only made things worse. And we have only been together for 6 months. There was also this guy I liked at the time who kinda helped my decision about leaving my bf but he's out of the picture and now my ex bf is tryin to get back 2gether with me. I honestly don't like 2 be alone and i've been thinking a lot about getting back together with him but everytime I think about it he reminds me of why I left him because we still get into arguments and start fighting about petty things. Its like he's not trying to do better. We've only been broken up for a few weeks but I really dont like arguing cuz im not used to that and I feel as if things will never change especially since he's so set in his ways.

2006-09-26 05:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Thang 6 in Singles & Dating

Why are so many of you people questioning love? Why should it matter? I understand that most of you have questions on "how do you know if a guy/girl likes you" but some of you people actually question "what is love?" I personally believe that love should not be tampered with..there is no answer that even come close to answering those questions. Love is love, and you will know when someone loves you...because you'll have that gut feeling.

Now I understand that, yes, we are under a singles and dating questionarre area...but still...why do you people insist on questioning love? Love is God's gift to us, so use it wisely

2006-09-26 05:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 05:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 05:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my girl friend and I are not together right now. I love her with all of my heart and she feels the same way about me. She left me after 3 years because when we first started going out I had abused her physically it hasnt happened in about 2 years now because I almost lost her because of it after it happened and she gave me a chance and I made sure it never happened again so I didn't hurt her or lose her. Recently her mom was in an abusive relationship and the guy had came into her house and choked her mom. i know this really scared my girl friend and it caused her to recall all those thoughts of the abuse. She said she couldn't take a chance of that happening again so we can't be together because I know it won;t happen again but she says she needs to know that. So i am going to start a group therapy next week not just to get her back but so i know what i am saying to her is the truth and to ensure her that i never want those things to happen again.

2006-09-26 05:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 05:38:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before we get married, but what is a good budget? our parents dont have a lot of money either, but they arent poor. should we take out a loan even though we both have student loans out? Oh, I will be done with school for 9 months before we get married.

2006-09-26 05:38:40 · 18 answers · asked by flutterflie04 5 in Weddings

2006-09-26 05:38:39 · 13 answers · asked by Briana Rogers 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the True Signs when a man Doesn't want to be in a Relationship With You?


This should be interesting, Serious replies only I'm only going to have this question posted today only,(my assignment is due tomorrow, lol so yeah)

2006-09-26 05:38:38 · 12 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a problem. Currently my gf is away at school and i'm working in a city 2 hours away. We have been on again off again for almost 2 years now and I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her.

The thing is she is really struggling with school + money right now. She doesn't think she will have enough money to complete her year and says that work is piling up too fast.

She calls me all upset because she isn't sure what to do and keeps saying she feels like quitting because there is no way she is going to be able to pay for everything, work and finish all her assignments.

I feel bad because I tell her that it will be alright and that she first has to calm down and that she shouldn't quit but she just doesn't want to seem to listen. She is upset and won't seem to take my advice even though I offer to help because she claims i can't really do anything since i am not there.

Its tough because I love her and want to help but feel like I am being pushed away.

2006-09-26 05:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by CJ B 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 24 married w/ kids but no friend. so i was hoping to find some in here, if you would consider being my friend please IM me or you can just add me on your my space...thanks.

2006-09-26 05:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by aemi 3 in Friends

any ideas

2006-09-26 05:37:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are so many kinds of chat rooms but i find it really hard to find an indian one. Do you guys know any?

2006-09-26 05:37:29 · 10 answers · asked by spidey_boy_14 1 in Friends

would you like girls who are reserved,self obsessed,completely into themselves ..or vibrant ,social..

2006-09-26 05:37:25 · 36 answers · asked by jane24 2 in Singles & Dating