We have one child, he is a monster in the sack. He hasn't dated anyone and neither have I. It has been over a year since the divorce.
2006-09-26 05:42:44 · 28 answers · asked by Hillary Dillary 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FIRST OF ALL HE'S AN EX FOR A REASON SECONDLY THE REASON YOU ALL ARE STILL HAVING SEX IS BECAUSE YOU'RE COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER. BUT THIS IS NOT HEALTHY FOR THE CHILD. I KNOW FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ABOUT THE EX AND SEX. BUT YOU HAVE TO MOVE FORWARD IF HE WANTED YOU YOU WOULD STILL BE MARRIED THAT'S JUST ANOTHER WAY OF CONTROLLING THE SITUATION. LIKE MY MOTHER ALWAYS SAID WHY BUY THE COW WHEN THE MILK IS FREE. TRY COUNSELING BECAUSE YOU HAVE A LOT MORE ISSUES OTHER THAN SEX. I SAY THAT BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU CAN'T GET ANYONE ELSE OR THAT SEX CAN'T BE GOOD OR INTIMATE WITH ANYONE ELSE.ARE YOU SURE HE'S NOT DATING ANYONE ELSE YOU ARE NOT THERE 24/7. JUST DON'T FALL BACK IN LOVE YOU'LL PROBABLY GET HURT.
2006-09-26 06:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by diamond girl36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you date? Are you still in love with him? Are you just scared to find someone new? These are questions you need to ask yourself. If you really wanted to stop it you would just tell him you don't want to do this anymore and move on. But then maybe part of you wants this thing to work out and get back together! Good luck!
2006-09-26 12:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you get out of this? how did you get into this? Its obvious you need and have needed a reality check. You dont say but its obvious by the situation you lack maturity and good judgement. Perhaps a doctor visit and potential medication for your lack of brain activity. PS...nice way to contract a venereal disease.
2006-09-26 12:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....I am going to go with stop having sex with him. I am more concerned with why you cannot date? Is it because of your child? Either way go buy a toy for yourself, you will be better off in the long run. Remember there is a reason that you are not still together.
2006-09-26 12:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i can tell you is;if you believe in your self.You can find someone else that really loves you.Someone that wants to be with you.Someone you really love.Not just someone tha wants a piece of you,and say good bye.When you find that guy.You can marry him and have a better life.If you have any personal question you can email me.That's what i do.I talk to people that have those kind of problems.My email address is:lovemicaforever@yahoo.com I speak French,Creole,Spanish and English.So you can talk to me in either of those languages.
2006-09-26 13:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Frenchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask, why did u divorce. If he's such a monster then what does it makes u living with him. U dont own him anything, u have a child to live for.
Get out!
2006-09-26 12:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can have no strings sex , then great. If it is hurting you then break it off. This happened to me but eventually my husband and I called off the divorce and got back together. I hope you don't have false hope though.
2006-09-26 13:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that he wont remarry you and he doesn't want you to date ?? If so all I can say is "Really ??". Why in the hell would you put up with this ?? How do you get out ? Stop seeing him. Its just that simple.
2006-09-26 12:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm get the H*LL out of there. He has no control over you. Go to the club go to match.com. Spread your wings girl because you no longer have to be on a leash.
2006-09-26 12:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you divorce? You shouldn't sleep with an ex - time to move on and end all contact!!
2006-09-26 12:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋