i "had" a lovely dynamique friend...
she was my past my futur my all my everything...
but.. i saw her kissing my boyfriend!!!!!!
what i gotta do???
i talk to her again or not??
2006-09-26 05:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be ur self!!!!
2006-09-27 04:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss can be in a friendly way as well... Dont jump into conclusions... Talk it out to her
Ask her why she did that... if there is no justification, you can leave her and forget about her... a friend who betrays the other is never a friend... But again, judge who is more important to you, and who has meant and done a lot for you... Base your decision upon that...
Forgive and forget is something that can help at times to save relationships
2006-09-26 05:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your friend and ask her why she did it. It also depends on how you look at it as well. If there's no means of justifying what she did, then she is not your friend. She had no right to kiss your boyfriend. Talk to your boyfriend as well. He shouldn't have kissed her back. Do what you think is best for you. You also have to decide if you still want this girl to be your friend or not. What goes around, comes around so it is up to you to decide. Good luck.
2006-09-26 05:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seen her kissing your boyfriend obviously she didn't think twice of your fillings. If I wear you I wouldn't even bother talking to her a true friend do sent betray you. Guys come and go but true friends stick together, open your eyes she is not your friend. As for the boyfriend dump his ***, you deserve better than that!!!!
2006-09-26 05:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend and a new boyfriend!!!! Apparently neither of them seem to care much about you. If she was trully your friend she would have never done that and if your boyfriend really cared about you he would have never done it either. Don't even waste your time talking to either one of them, you deserve better. Move on and find someone else. If they did it once they will do it again and your "friend" will do it with any of your other boyfriends.
2006-09-26 05:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if she was your past and your future then it seems like she was very important in your life. Find out why she did this? Does she have feelings for him? Were they drunk? I think you need to find out what happened between because it could be a misunderstanding, or the guy could be a scumbag! You need to find out details or you might end up losing them both!
2006-09-26 05:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should deal with her the same way you deal with him because they both played equal parts! You should probably distance yourself from both of them. Thats my style, I dont like confrontation so I would just leave both of them alone with no explanation. They didnt give you an explanation of why they were kissing!!
2006-09-26 05:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really sad,for all people your friend will be the one to betray you.Anyway just ask her and tell her wat you had saw.Anyway its your right to confront her and your boyfriend,atleast they will know what they have done.After that end your friendship with this girl cause people like her don't deserve to have tru friends,cause she don't know how to act like one.And your bf too,let them go to H**l.Move on!!!!
2006-09-26 05:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had z same experience as u....jus z same i assure u!!!but zen i thought a lot abt it before taking a decision...if my bf really had cared for me he would not have behave like zis...i blame my bf only coz my frien i jus sent her to hell...i got so many friens tat z one i loose is not better than z one i gain...i learnd t trust only those who dnt wana u t trust them!!!!they r z frank people!!!!
2006-09-26 05:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by parky_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. Then don't talk to her for about a week or two, so she will learn her lesson.
2006-09-26 05:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by rock101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so wrong. Cut them both off!! Why would they hurt you like that. Cut them off or prepare yourself for more pain. Who can you trust??
2006-09-26 05:47:05 · answer #11 · answered by NoPeace4Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋