Before I tell you about the problem, I want to tell you all, my bf and I have a wonderful relationship and we love each other very much... We have so much fun together and get along very well...but on the phone, here is how it goes:
My bf and I argue about little stupid things constantly...lol, I need advice...?
We would be talking and then we get into small disagreements constantly...and when I say about stupid stuff, I mean really stupid...lol...do opposites really attract?..........idk,
I never implied that I was stupid, I said that our arguments are stupid...can you read?...
And when I do drop it, he wants to act like a little girl...After I drop it he won't talk and all of his responses to whatever else I bring up are "uh huh", "yeah"...or "sure"...and stuff like that...this stuff frustrates me to no end...I swear...I need more answers...help...
2006-09-26 05:44:24 · 10 answers · asked by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and he probably knows what buttons to push, just as I'm sure you do too. So relax and argue about stupid stuff until your hearts are contented, it's how we get to know each other. okay
2006-09-26 06:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like when the situation calls for communication, you 2 argue. What I mean is, when you are together, you can sit quietly or make jokes over something you see, etc. But on the phone when the only thing you can do is talk, you fight. I dont know what you can do to fix that, but its just an observation that maybe you have less in common than you may realize.
2006-09-26 12:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think now that you guys are so in love and that you have so much fun together but wait until you are married. The little things you find annoying now will be unbearble. If he acts like a little girl now, when you are married it will drive you insane. Once you are married things aren't so cute anymore. I don't mean to sound mean but trust me I know how these things work. When I dated my husband the little things I found cute are now unacceptable. The stupid little things you argue about will become so annoying that you won't want to be around him.
2006-09-26 12:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is key to a successful relationship
make sure that he is not arguing with you on a daily basis, or that could spell trouble for the future. but arguing from time to time is normal and natural, just try to express yourself as clearly as you can and make sure that he understands that he can be honest as well. Good luck.
2006-09-26 12:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has its disagreements. It's normal. You'd be surprised to hear that a majority of people in relationships get along better when they are together, then when they are seperate.
2006-09-26 12:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're not using the phone anymore if he can't act right and then FOLLOW THRU.
2006-09-26 12:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang up the phone
2006-09-26 12:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang up the phone and give it some time. ...
2006-09-26 12:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him and move on to a mature relationship
2006-09-26 12:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by SPEED DEMON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new b/f
2006-09-27 09:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋