Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

2006-09-26 06:22:52 · 25 answers · asked by lplaza524 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad is a very bad person . From my childhood i've seen him to abuse & fight with my mom . He claims himself as the superior to everyone . He does not allow us to keep any relations with any of my mom side relatives . He is an engineer but behaves worse than a labourer person .
Once , a year before when me & my mother when any way managed to visit my grandfather's house we left my mother's younger sister with him who was then studing in a college. you won't belive ,he took our revenge onto her . He litetally abused her . When she complained about this to my mom &when she asked my dad as why he has did this type of thing he said that she was a girl with badcharector & said that she was lying to my mom . We also decided to take help of police of administration but an economic problem theatened us from doing so....
That's why i have left this question for you to answer so that i can get a solution for this

2006-09-26 06:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by shubhamdasshubh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this is a long one. My bf has this friend who has a weird relationship w/ his “gf”. They broke-up but still “hang out”. OK so here’s my thing: ever since this “break-up” my bf has been going out and doing all these things with his friend and his “gf” but the things they are doing are stuff that I talked about me and my bf doing. You know just going to certain clubs, bars or chill spots. I’m not really mad at the fact that he goes with them its just the fact that he goes to places I want to try and tells me when he’s there or on his way. Of course he doesn’t understand why I get upset. But today really got to me. its my bf’s bday and I was trying to plan a nite with him and he called and suggested that he call his friend and see what he wants to do and then he will call me. I feel like these plans should be made by me and him not his friend, I guess too bc today also is the anniversary of the day we met, so its special to me in 2 ways. Am I just being stupid about the whole thing or is he just being a guy and not realizing what certain things mean to me?

2006-09-26 06:21:47 · 23 answers · asked by so cal mama 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think my mom is very jealous of me, she is nearing 41 early early next month, I just turned 19, I go out to clubs and places and meet cute boys, she is married to a guy for 4 yrs who cheats on her,ive got a nice figure, hers has gone to hell after 2 kids, i am a college freshman who is going to make things of herself, she dropped out of 11th grade and has a dead end job she has been at for more then 15 yrs,I dont tell her any of this, but I think it in my head, I mean there must be some reason she is always mean to me, I try to be nice to her, but shes still a b*tch like its my fault she didnt have a better life, its not like when i was born she couldnt have been finished with school and got a good job, no she chose 2 drop out and be a loser, none of its my fault

2006-09-26 06:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a boy yesterday and we went out to eat that same day. but i've been talking to my ex again for a while ad I really want to get back with him. but me and this new boy went to this hotel because i wanted to check it out. I didn't plan on sleeping with him and we didn't. But he suggested that we go to the top floor and i did. When we got there we went on the staircase and at first we were just making out and it was pretty heavy stuff. I felt him getting hard and I backed out. He said that he didn't want to do it but he woud like to give me pleasure. So right there on the stairs he te me out. And i didn't have a problem with that. But now my ex is saying that he definitely wants to get back with me. I don't know if I should tell him what happened because it was on the same day. please give advice and don't judge. I beat myself up enough already

2006-09-26 06:20:38 · 22 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex-bf and I broke up yesterday and I thought he was okay with it,but he is making all these jerky comments infront of his friends. Like, She liked me. And especially today his friend was like, "Go kiss Jennifer" and he gave me disgusted look and said Yeah right. What can I say back to him?

2006-09-26 06:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Singles & Dating

just looking to have some fun no games plz

2006-09-26 06:20:06 · 5 answers · asked by jessegriffin@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will pay 100/week for someone to watch my toddler from 8:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.

2006-09-26 06:20:02 · 1 answers · asked by Christina D 1 in Family

Should I round them up and send them there?

2006-09-26 06:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 06:18:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

shes not way loud but loud enough for me to know she is doing it

2006-09-26 06:18:24 · 26 answers · asked by kas 2 in Friends

It seems that after every relationship I've been in, they are usually at the end of the relationship only interested in sex..

2006-09-26 06:18:23 · 23 answers · asked by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 in Singles & Dating

if your gf was goin to have a baby that is yours ...... would you push the issue of ABORTION !!!!! if you would you make me sick !!!!

2006-09-26 06:17:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hubby diched me.even he knows that what his mom does his wrong.he didnt care wen i was pregnant& got an abortion also.still now he had not called me.do i have to rejoin him or divorse him

2006-09-26 06:16:45 · 23 answers · asked by sherya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i are on this break because he is tired of fighting. it's been a while now. we still talk and say i love you but he refuses to see me.

today is our anniversary and i told him i have a gift for him because i got it a long time ago before anything happened. he said he would like to see what it is, meaning he will come over to see. he said if im nice to him and dont argue with him he will come back to me. that's what ive been doing for a while.

i told him he has two suprises. one is the gift and the other is me and that i will stop fighting with him. he said he was happy without all the fighting. if i love him i will truly stop figthing with him over stupid ****. he needs to trust me.

will he take me back or is he just holding onto me because he doesnt want to be alone right now?????

2006-09-26 06:15:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are an older (me 42, him 45) couple, and love each other very much. I believe him when he tells me this. But I think I am so much in love right now, it's bordering on obsession, and I don't want to chase him away. I am giddy, like a teenager when I'm with him. When I'm not, I scrutinize everything he does and says and wonder about what he's doing.
He's a great guy and I don't want to lose him. How do I stop being so suffocating to him?

2006-09-26 06:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by deb 4 in Singles & Dating

I really really, like this boy named Mark! A lot, and he knows I like him and Im not sure if he likes me back. Can you tell me whether he likes me or not from these reasons:
1. He was smiling when I asked him why he doesnt wanna talk to me. He said cause im younger than him.
2.He looks at me.
3.He told multiple of his friends that I like him. People come up to me asking do you like Mark.
4.My friend told me that he said "your friend looks nice today" (talking about me). Then he told my friend not to tell me that he said that.

DOES HE LIKE ME BACK OR NOT???

2006-09-26 06:15:10 · 19 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Friends

I met this girl once on a trip and we talked for a bit. When I came back I added her on my MSN list. This was back in Dec/Jan. I msg'd her a few times, and whenever I did, we'd have decent enough conversations and chilled. But by February I went a couple of weeks without msg'ing her to see if she'd msg me and she never did, so I deleted her contact.

I saw her again at a wedding this July, but didn't get a chance to speak to her. I re-added her on MSN and msg'd her and again we talked and clicked pretty good. But for the last three months, every convo we had was initiated by me. SHE NEVER ONCE MSG'D ME FIRST.

Does that mean she's completely uninterested? And if yes, should I just spare myself the headache and just block her?

2006-09-26 06:14:50 · 34 answers · asked by tell_me_whos_sleeping_with_who 2 in Singles & Dating

guys looking at their chest when they talk to them. But I'll catch girls looking at my crotch when they are talking to me. At least we're keeping it above the waist, and not trying to peek for camel toe.

2006-09-26 06:14:23 · 22 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are looking to relocate to Atlanta, GA in March with our two young children. How do we go about doing this? We will need employment, schools and so on.

2006-09-26 06:13:50 · 6 answers · asked by Shay Shay 1 in Family

Maybe I was born shy. I just cannot get myself to talk to new people. I do not feel comfortable talking to them. I feel very comfortable talking to my friends though and my family. But when it comes to new people in class, words cannot come out. I tried saying hi to lots of people in class but it still didn't work. I tried joining clubs and talking to new people but I still feel uncomfortable. Any ideas on how to counteract my uncomfortableness?

2006-09-26 06:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i find out if he is being unfaithful to me

2006-09-26 06:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by janine w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 06:12:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old and still in college and my Bf is 23 and just started working we went with mutual friends to a bachelor Party and bachelorett party combine and a few drinks later were dared to walk down to the white chapel and get hitched since we were more cozy than the engaged couple. Well we did actually get married. We were only together 6 months before this/ friends a year and were only thinking of getting engaged!I am really confused and scared wedding night was a blur and i dont think we used a condom.This happened last week and i think i am still in shock. I do love love him but have always dreamed of a real wedding with my whole family and all my friends there.

2006-09-26 06:12:29 · 26 answers · asked by kelly v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like i know highschool guys my age do... but do older men?

2006-09-26 06:11:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 06:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by MARC L 1 in Friends

My x and I were together for almost 9 years. We were never married and there is no common law marriage in Missouri but this feels like a divorce. We split about a month ago and I need to get my things out of our house. (it's in his name) He is being very picky about what I can take and what I can't. He doesn't think the things he gave a gifts throughout the years should go with me. I'm not asking for the things I gave him back. For instance, we used to ride a motorcycle together and he bought me a helmet a couple years ago. Right now his new girl has it and I told him I wanted it back. He doesn't agree. He called me the other day because he wants the two pillows I took from the bed back because his mom bought those for us. What do I do if he becomes difficult and I can't get all my stuff?

2006-09-26 06:11:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your boyfriend sleeping on the floor and the girl sleeping in his bed. Even if you trust him, that they didn't do anything with each other. Would you have a problem, or is it just me?

2006-09-26 06:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by Sweetie Pie 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife tells me I'm too bold for my own good. I being the person that I am cannot allow myself to smile in the faces to people who I know have done me wrong. Whether Friends, Family or Co-Workers I have no shame in telling someone up close and personal(non confrontational of course) that I know we're not on the same team, I know you are two faced or I know that you have undermind me for sometime . One thing I can't stand is someone who claims to be your friend, but at the drop of a dime will sell you out without thinking twice, and at the same time still try to befriend you.

My question to you good people is what are your methods of exposing backstabbers?, and Do you smile back at them knowing that they've done you wrong?

2006-09-26 06:09:51 · 3 answers · asked by J Truth 6 in Friends

2006-09-26 06:07:38 · 17 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating