My x and I were together for almost 9 years. We were never married and there is no common law marriage in Missouri but this feels like a divorce. We split about a month ago and I need to get my things out of our house. (it's in his name) He is being very picky about what I can take and what I can't. He doesn't think the things he gave a gifts throughout the years should go with me. I'm not asking for the things I gave him back. For instance, we used to ride a motorcycle together and he bought me a helmet a couple years ago. Right now his new girl has it and I told him I wanted it back. He doesn't agree. He called me the other day because he wants the two pillows I took from the bed back because his mom bought those for us. What do I do if he becomes difficult and I can't get all my stuff?
2006-09-26 06:11:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make three lists - things that are yours b4 u met, things that are his, and then the rest. then u need to negotiate
2006-09-26 06:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to get ugly with lawyers and stuff I say let it go... Your talking about pillows and a motorcycle helmet.... is it really worth the hassle??? Sounds like you dealing with a real ***... count your blessings and be glad your rid of him.
2006-09-26 13:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obtain a reciprocating saw and split everything down the middle. Be sure to change the blade periodically to keep the wood from splintering.
2006-09-26 13:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in calling a lawyer to see what your rights and responsibilites are in this situation. The first phone consultation is usually free, and might give you some perspective. Good luck.
2006-09-26 13:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are talking about small material things. things which really don't matter anyway. do you need the helmet or is it just because you don't want his new girlfriend to have it? cut your losses and walk away, get the loser out of your life as quick as possible. these things are replacable, your wasted time on him isnt.
2006-09-26 13:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two sound like a couple kids.Trade the pillows for the helmet.
Better yet do you own a shot gun??
Since you are Irish I am on your side though.
2006-09-26 14:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a helmet without a motorcycle? Seems like your just asking to "bother him".....
Do you really need that helmet?
2006-09-26 13:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give something as a gift, it is just that. You no longer have any control over it... You may have to get the sheriff to accompany you to get the rest of your things.
2006-09-26 13:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd cut my losses and set myself free from all that baggage. Take your blue jeans and leave. Don't stoop to his pettiness.
2006-09-26 13:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney. Common law or not he can't keep your stuff.
2006-09-26 13:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋