Your boyfriend sleeping on the floor and the girl sleeping in his bed. Even if you trust him, that they didn't do anything with each other. Would you have a problem, or is it just me?
2006-09-26 06:10:06 · 24 answers · asked by Sweetie Pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, i would have a problem. maybe they are not doing anything, its just the principle of the situation. OK if you dont like something for what ever reason then it shouldnt be no problem 4 him to change that, thats what relationship are about makin you/him feel comfortable a good guy a nice guy your guy wouldnt want to hurt u, but he probably doesn't even know you feel this way, so bring this question to him so he can at less know how you truly feel about it.
PS dont let him hurt u unknowingly, cause he will never know how u feel unless u say something
2006-09-26 06:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a problem when someone has a good friend of the opposite sex. I have a best friend that is a male and I used to stay at his house at times. The thing is we could sleep in the same bed and do nothing. We are best friends, BUT after I got engaged and he had a girlfriend, it just became inappropriate, whether we were doing anything or not. I am not quite sure of the reason that she had to stay there??? Was she from out of town or something? If she was and they had been friends since like preschool and she was like part of his family, I could see her staying in an extra room or on the couch, but not in the same room with your man. It just comes down to a respect thing I think. I think your boyfriend should respect the fact that you and he are in a relationship and shouldn't have stayed in the same room with her....on the floor or not. So after all my talking...I would say you have every right to feel funny about that one. Talk to your man, but don't start yelling....that will just put him on defense and not solve anything.
Good Luck!!
2006-09-26 06:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by lynswil_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy's point of view, I think you should probably be mad a little bit. It's okay to have female friends, but they really don't need to sleep in the same room, he or she could have slept in the living room or something. It doesn't take much to get a guy "in the mood" and sometimes things just happen. It could have been very easy for her to get him to do something, even if you two have been together for 3 months, 1 year, or 5! All it could have taken was for her to get down to her underwear, and boom, he's going to be a little happy somewhere south, and it could go as far as allowable. There is absolutely no need for them to sleep in the same room, the only female he should be sleeping in the same room with is you.
2006-09-26 06:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't be ok with it. It's fine if she sleeps in his bed, but he doesn't have to sleep on the floor in the same room. He could sleep on a couch or on the floor in a different room. I would be kind of upset if a girl I didn't know stayed in my bf's house period. But as long as they aren't in the same room I wouldn't say anything. It's his house. And I trust him. Doesn't she have other friends she can stay with?
2006-09-26 06:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me personaly I would so have a problem BUT I'm not a very trusting person.
I guess for other people it would depend on if they trusted the guy and even more if they trusted the girl. Honestley it's wrong and disrespectful and I think the chances are very slim that nothing happened...bUT like I said I am very untrusting!
2006-09-26 06:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on your level of trust between both of the individuals. I personally am the only girl a group of about 12 guys and most of their girlfriends know me and realize that if I wanted to date any of my friends I would have done it a long time ago. I wouldn't have a problem with my man doing it because I know all of his girl friends and they are friends of mine also. Unfortunately most women aren't like me and aren't secure enough with themselves to trust their man to that extent. If he is that close with the girl its only natural to assume that you know the girl as well. Is the problem really them two or is it you? I know for a fact my best friend would have absolutely no problem with me sleeping in the same bed with her husband but thats just because she knows me and the way I am and she also trusts her husband. It wouldn't even occur to any of us to think twice about it but like I said our group of friends are unlike many.
2006-09-26 06:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is only you. i would have a big problem with this, tristing or not hello a boy and a girl in the same room at night, friends or no friends one time something will happen if it hasn't already. tell him you don't feel comfortable with this if he understands then you can pretty much guaranty nothing did happen but if he gets mad then something happened, and know you have to make another choice.
2006-09-26 06:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by melanie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn I would have a problem with that but then again me and my boyfreind live together. I trust my man but I have trust problems scence I was hurt so much. Like I tell my man I trust him it's the b i t c hs that I don't trust.
2006-09-26 06:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dixie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a problem -- why play with fire -- it'd be a problem even if he was the pope -- these things have an inertia all of their own -- people who would never consider conciously doing something untoward are more vulnerable than they might think -- bodies have a way of overuling brains and start to dance to the familiar tune when the music starts
2006-09-26 06:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Zee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just you.
What kind of people let their teenagers have sleep overs of the opposite sex.
Trust or no trust thats odd.
2006-09-26 06:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by lajefa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋