It seems that after every relationship I've been in, they are usually at the end of the relationship only interested in sex..
2006-09-26 06:18:23 · 23 answers · asked by drowning_in_ur_truths 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, to the people answering this question. Yes I know that I shouldn't give it up easily, that was a given. But what happens if I've been in the relationship long enough and I have felt like it wasn't just all about sex, but it turned out to be that way. And it just doesn't happen once or twice, it happens a lot. And to all the mean jerks who have commented and said "who would want to have sex with you"... Don't worry, I don't want your nuts anyway.
2006-09-26 06:38:14 · update #1
Most guys are only interested in sex at first. Take it from me, I am a guy. But it's up to you to make them want more. The right guys will actually try harder to be with you if you don't play easy to get. If you have sex with them right away, then they are gonna think you were just in it for a one night stand, so that's all they look for in that. If you want them to stay around, you should let them know you're interested. Flirt with them, tease them, and let them know there's plenty more where that came from. But don't put out, at least not for the first three weeks to a month. And if he's still around, then I'm sure he has plans of sticking around. Good luck.
2006-09-26 06:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I don't know you, I've seen this in a lot of situations of friends of mine. You probably have a bad eye for guys and always pick the bad apples. You might base things on looks more than personality which in the end makes you the shallow one, if that's not the case, you're just easily fooled by wolves in sheep's clothing. You have to follow your heart. Not to be cliche, but you're looking for love in all the wrong places. I've seen too many girls get heartbroken because the only guys they find are pieces of well, you know. Not all guys are only interested in sex, don't let anybody tell you differently, you just have to keep looking and learn how to weed out the bad guys out there.
2006-09-26 06:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly what is wrong with sex? It is a way for people to express their emotions physically. It has many benefits to each person and the relationship. The problem I think you are having, is the relationship becomes just about sex. You shouldn't have it until you know the person well enough, get along with them, can talk for hours on end, etc.
2006-09-26 06:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try an start saying "NO!" unless your the one who wants it make them do things with you for awhile (like go out an other dating things not do it). Guys like to keep guessin when it comes to that thing between your legs. Keepin them in suspense like that "IF!" they really like" YOU!" They will do whatever until your ready to give it to them. If not F! um! then you'll know that thats all they wanted in the first place and not trying to get to know you! Guys can tell when a girl is easy and gives it up rather quickly too! It's also in the way you carry yourself what makes them that way. My husband told me along time ago that some guys will do that just to see what kind of a girl you are. When I first met him I wanted it because I was soooooo curious about what he had because of what I heard, but he really liked me and made ME wait. So just slow down alittle and pay attention. GOOD LUCK SWEETS!
2006-09-26 06:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by mzjaydawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just asking this question to my friends yesterday! I cant even have a booty call because I get emotinally attached and hurt. I wish I could give you an answer but that is just how guys are. You have to make them wait a little bit before getting the nookie lol so they can interest themselves in YOU not just your panocha..
2006-09-26 06:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be looking in the wrong place. All the guys I know are more interested in relationships and trying to settle down.
Unfortunately, they're also the "nice guys" who lose the girl to the guys your referring to.
Try looking for guys outside of your normal channels and circles, maybe Mr. Right is waiting for you there.
2006-09-26 06:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by noblehado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are interested in many things, sex is just a common denominator. its driven by biology, it is what it is, you can question it, & dislike it, but you will not change it. its kind of like a biological addiction, that is incurable, a nucense at times for both genders, as well as a basic need for the continuation of our species. (not that we would not survive if it were toned down a bit, but we have little control over biology)
2006-09-26 06:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....1. u must suck. 2. guys are genetically programmed to reproduce .3. what else is there to do thats fun and exercise at the same time. 4. dont u know all the health benefits of SEX 5. ITS SEX FOR CRYING OUT LOUD lmao
2006-09-26 06:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dunno what kind of guys you're meeting, but you sound pretty cool from your 360, and you're beautiful. I wouldn't mind having some conversation and getting to know you a little.
In fact, I'm going to drop you a line after I post this answer.
PS - Crap, I can't contact you through yahoo answers... cuz it says your mail isn't comformed. A blah. You should e-mail me. offensivetoall@yahoo.com
2006-09-26 06:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcus the guys your finding are found in the wrong places u need to find a good man whos loyal and loves u for you i love my baby for who she is and i wouldnt let her change herself for the world bcus then she would b changin who she is so dont think about changing yourself think about how to realx n kick back bcus the right guy will come when you least expect it
2006-09-26 06:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by shutup_nlisten2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋